HI AGAIN, I HAVE READ THROUGH ALL OF THESE POST THAT EVERYONE HAS PUT ON HERE TO HELP WITH MY SITUATION AND I MUST SAY THERE ARE SOME PPL OUT HERE IN THE WORLD THAT DO USE THEIR BRAINS TO TRY AND HELP ME OUT.

AS FOR THE ONES ON HERE THAT SAY THAT I AM A IDIOT, YEA YOU MAY BE RIGHT IN SOME SORT CAUSE I HAD MY CHILD AT A YOUNG AGE, I HAVE BEEN RAISING MY CHILDREN ALONE CAUSE I DONT WANT A DRUG ADDICTED ASSHOLE HELPING ME RAISE MY KIDS. YOU KNOW I MAY BE A IDIOT BUT LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING I KNOW THAT HAVING KIDS IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IN THE WORLD, NO MATTER WHAT PPL LIKE THE COP SAID, I DO NOT SPARE ANY ASS WHOOPINS, I DO SPANK MY KIDS WHEN THEY NEED, I DO NOT BEAT MY KIDS BUT WHEN THEY WANT TO STAND UP TO ME AND CUSS ME LIKE A DOG AFTER I BEEN TAKING CARE OF THEM FOR THE PAST 13 YEARS I WILL SLAP MY KIDS. I HAVE BEEN TO JAIL BECAUSE OF MY KIDS CAUSE I WOULD NOT LET MY DAUGHTER HIT ME AND I BLOCKED HER AND SHE GOT HIT ON THE BACK OF THE HEAD BY ME, AND THE JUDGE TOLD ME THAT IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE IS THE UNRULY ONE AND HE DEMANDED HER TO JUVY COURT. SO YES I TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS ON A EVERYDAY BASIS.

AS FOR THE OTHER PERSON THAT THINKS ADHD IS NOT A MEDICAL CONDITION, WELL MY YOUNGEST SON HAS IT, HE IS NOT SPOILED AS A MATTER OF FACT SINCE HE HAS BEEN ON HIS MEDICATION, HE BROUGHT HIS GRADES UP IN SCHOOL FROM Cs TO STRAIGHT A's. SO JUST LIKE ONE PERSON ON HERE SAID IF YOU DO NOT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT ADHD OR ADD GO TO GOOGLE AND LOOK IT UP.

I AM NOT STUPID BTW. I WENT TO COLLEGE AND MY GPA WAS 3.5. I KNOW MY KIDS MISS THEIR FATHER BUT UNTIL HE GETS OFF THE DOPE HE WONT BE AROUND. I DO NOT WANT ANY OF MY CHILDREN TO FOLLOW IN HIS FOOTSTEPS AND DROP OUT OF SCHOOL TO BE HOOKED ON DRUGS.

MY MOTHER DID NOT LET ME DROP OUT SO I AM GOING TO STICK BY THE WAY I WAS RAISED UP AND MAKE MY CHILDREN GO TO SCHOOL EVERYDAY THAT IT IS OPENED AND LEARN ABOUT HOW TO BECOME PRODUCTIVE MEMBERS OF SOCIETY.

THANK YOU TO ALL THE PEOPLE ON HERE THAT DID RESPOND BACK TO ME WITH SOME SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO ABOUT MY DAUGHTER SITUATION. I REALLY APPRECIATE IT.

I HOPE THAT ONE DAY MAYBE THE ONES ON HERE THAT RESPONDED WITH SMARTASS COMMENTS WILL HAVE KIDS ONE DAY AND THEN THEY WILL SEE WHAT EVERYONE HERE WAS TALKING ABOUT.

YOU CAN SPANK YOUR CHILD, BUT YOU CAN NOT BEAT THEM.

I HOPE EVERYONE OF YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY.

I HAVE A 13 YR OLD GIRL THAT IS OUT OF CONTROL. SHE HAS BEEN SUSPENDED FROM SCHOOL SEVERAL TIMES THIS YEAR, BEEN LOCKED UP IN JUVY OVERNIGHT, AND CONSTANTLY CUSSES ME AND HER MAMAW OUT. I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING I KNOW OF TO GET HER TO GET CONTROL OF HER ACTIONS. SHE IS CURRENTLY ON MEDICATION FOR HER ANGER ISSUES AND SHE IS ON PROBATION. WHAT CAN A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 DO? I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IS GOING ON IN HER MIND. SHE WONT TALK TO ME AND I AM DEVASTATED ABOUT ALL THIS.

I DONT WANT HER BROTHERS TO END UP LIKE THE WAY SHE IS RIGHT NOW. I TELL MY SONS NOT TO ACT LIKE THEIR SISTER BUT HER TWIN BROTHER IS STARTING TO ACT OUT. I CAUGHT HIM SMOKING CIGS YESTERDAY AND I REALLY BLEW A FUSE THEN.

CAN ANYONE GIVE ME SOME SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO? I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT.