Hello notsoincognito. Hehe do you have a shortcut of your name? Im win, nice to meet you.

Why do people say looks should not be important? Human live by their six senses and our sight is our go to first. Looks are part of our subconscious mind that sees a healthy mate, where as our conscious mind sees it as beauty or sexy. The visual looks are not just to us humans. Many animals like peacocks display its feathers at times to attract a mate. Some birds use a dance to attract a mate to come over and check them and their nest out.

Looks are like a warm use to bring the fish in close, but your personality is what will hook the mate you desire. Simple put, looks attracts, personality keeps.

Hi! I´m new here and I´m hoping to meet a lot of great guys and girls to chat.

Hi! I´m new here and I´m hoping to meet a lot of great guys and girls to chat.

I feel, love does exist.
The problem, is the misuse and deception of one's love that makes love a facade....
Like Pit Bulls, to many people have no desire to place a significant value on true love.
In this generation, especially, reality seems distorted, by the amazing, amusing electronics, and the tv drama nearly everyone, sadly, feel it is ok to do as they wish, without regard of the thought, or feelings of those who care about them

He exists only in storybooks

For some reason I don't get why people get lip and nose piercings and tattoos and then walk around expecting to be treated as 'normal.'

They obviously are waving their freak flags for all to see, and for getting a job, I'm sorry, they don't present a good first impression.

Loaf n' jug's written policy is no tattoos showing and yet I find even the managers at the store in this town are displaying tattoos. I don't get it.

Honestly if someone asked me all these questions the first time they met me I would be looking for a exit...

If we had meet online first I would have asked if they were married, had children ext...just to make conversation...prior to meeting them...Then make the first meet more casual and easy going...

And if I was meeting them for the first time outside of the internet would only ask if they were married if they asked me out on a date... all the other stuff will come through conversation.

Myself I don't like to be drilled, get to know them first and ask questions along the way... People tend to feel threaten if they feel like they are being drilled about their life... You can find more out just starting things slow others are more likely to feel at ease and reveal more about themselves...JMO...

I try to date the person not the other stuff. In my experience: Americanized and/or white women tend to smack me a lot; foreigners tend to want money- that is the bad, the good is.... wait give me a minute...