Im 45 and been married to the same woman for 27 years ! I realized early on that she had a rough life growing up and did not make the best choices sometimes like bought something instead of paying bills ! So hey no power or no heat or no phone but we had a son and i loved her and knew her up bringing wasnt good so i stuck by her and this went on for 10 years there!Then we had a daughter and she began lying to me about things like where she was or what she spent money on and managed to lose our home to the bank just as were about to have our second daughter but i loved her and been together for 20 yr so we worked though it and i stood by her!I started having problems with my joints and it made it hard to work but i did until my plant closed ! While i was off work on unemployment my sleep habits changed so i woke up in the middle of the night to find my wife having cyber sex with dozens of men online very detailed and that just broke my heart ! But at 23 years and 3 kids she tells me she was molested several times as a kid and would not do it again so we worked though it!And things go on and im paying the bills now everythings going good!We go to Gatlinburg Tn for our 25 th and buy her a new car had great time! Then 1 yr later she cheats on me with 30 yr old that was a foster boy who lived with us at 15 !Now im really crushed my whole world crumbled but i love her so much that at 26 yrs i cant imagine her not being in my life! !Well at 27yrs she walked out on me and the 2 girls because she has not loved me for over 15 yrs and i dont trust her anymore !With in 3 wks had new boy friend and acts like we never had anything between us !Where did the good guys go well after all this i dont know if i could ever really give a woman a fair chance !Sorry new to this and i guess just venting ! Anybody know when the pain goes away ?I hope soon