I am 39, been married twice, and divorced AGAIN... not becouse i have done anything wrong, both times my wife(S) cheated on me. I am a nice guy, the one that holds the door open, pulls a chair out for you, calls you and asks how your day went, listens to you when you cry, or laugh,I bring flowers home on random days, and when i do come home i always walk upto you and give you a kiss and hug and tell you i missed you during the day.. and they still cheated on me... my 2nd wife i forgave the first time she did, and i even forgave her the 2nd time, but the third time i told her to leave and never come back. that was 2 years ago.. this year i tryed dating again, after being single for a time... i found someoen i "THOUGHT" we were perfect for each other, i started to really care for this woman. she had 3 kids, i do not have a problem with getting involved with a woman who has kids, hell that usally shows she has settled down a little.. she was also marired twice,, to bad boys... go figure.. but she chose me to start something with. it was going well i though for about 5 months, then all of a sudden i got laid off from work, and had to find a new job, she stopped calling me, or wanting me to come over, would not answer my emails anymore,, all of a sudden for no reason,, poof i am out in the cold.. when i finally talked to her, she said shes jsut gotten to busy to continue being with me, and that becouse i have a new job not making the money i once was, i can no longer "SUPPORT" her the way she want to be,,. after 7 months dating.... I am considring not being so,,,,"NICE" anymore,, i am also considering staying single, but i figured, once more kick at the can, and if i can not find someone to love me for whats INSIDE my skin, not my bank account or by what i drive, and how many dinners and dancing/movies i can take them too, or bars.... sorry kind of going on a rant here, but you really want to know where all the nice guys are, I USED TO BE ONE,, we will see if i continue to be so nice anymore.....

Alan