I am new here too. It is hard to get back into finding someone to love again for ever, when there are so meny games that people go through to fine true love again. For me, if I meat another lady the day after the first date, I'll pass on that lady untill I see where the first date will take me. Most men do not have this respect for wemon. They'll date two or three at the same time and pick the best one. Also, wemon I fine say they are looking for a good loving man, but if he has no money but suports himself, they do not want anything to do with him. After being with someone for 20 years truly loving each other, I fine so meny games that I do not know truly what to think about the truth in the dating game, as I see it anyway.

You feel so out of place when your back out in the dating game, as it were, when your love has past. :brokenheart It seems that the more you loved that someone special, the harder it is to fined love again. I know that there is love again to become one, but it is the wait when you want to love so badly. It is surprizing to me of so meny wemon out there that say they want a good man, but all they are realy after in the money first and hope for him to be a good man. It seems to me that they will not even give a poor man a secound look,know fare well that he is a good man. Saying all this, it looks like I am doomed living in a small town with now money and with the best love a man could give to a wonen.

Shsssssssss, I want to be shy. Hay, I am kidding. being a my wife past away 3 years ago and I am just now ready to start again to love that special some one. At 53 though it is hard to meet people all over again. I fine that most just want to have fun and do a lot of dating, but I only want to date the one person I want to marry agian. Do you think that I have the wrong idea?

I feel the same way. It is lik; I am that I am. Now I say ; It is to feel I am with houm that I am with.