am looking for the Serious Minded only...
Also want you to know that distance does not
mean anything too me, as well as, age, it is just a
number but maturity is what matters. we can
share contact

Yes. That is a scam. If you start talking with someone and they say that they are visiting Ghana, Nigeria etc. if you ask someone text you and you receive a text from a phone number with extra digits it is definitely a scam also. If you exchange numbers with someone and they have a phone area code that doesn't match the state they say they are from that is a huge red flag too. If someone starts talking about needing money etc... That is a red flag too. Hope this helps. I have been on this site for a week and have found 11 scammers out of 12 women I have received messages from.

A score in a Tennis game

Are you a white Michael Jackson impersonator

Thank you all for your feedback and insight. Ive been going through one of life's storms lately, and these Ohio winters and me do not get along, so that just agitates my issues more, but the storm is nearing the end and soon I will be having fun in the sun. Things are getting better for me and my future is bright.

I wish you all the best, truly.

i sou gevind het wat jy een, maar ek nie Afrikaans magtig is nie

Am 32 years man who want to be a frand with a beautiful matured lady around gauteng

Thank god one of you is aware of this

I had this very conversation with my "��guy"�� friend the other day. He was bitching because he thought he had this great first date and he emailed her for a second date and thought he chased her off by being too into her, contacting her too soon and too often. I am going to tell you what I told him. She just wasn't into you dude. Your are buying into the lie, she already had one foot out the door and the story you are being fed about you were too nice or too honest about your feelings or said too much too soon was just a line to protect your feelings. If she really liked you and wanted to see you again or wanted to continue the relationship, guess what? She would have. I challenge one woman to say they dumped a guy because he was too nice, patient, kind, interested, gracious or for being a gentleman or any of the reasons stated. I think it is just an excuse for men not to be nice guys.

Do I sense a hint of jealousy? We aren't a myth, we're the exception to the rule. You don't have to be a complete a55 to be good in bed, please a woman or make her quiver. Some of our (men) consciences are louder than our libidos. That doesn't mean we have the sexual prowess of a three legged spider. Spend some time listening instead of blowing hot air all the time. If you're not attentive to a woman, her reactions, words, moans, whispers etc you're missing 80% of the pleasure she has to give.

I like patience in a man. To be wooed and someone who is persistent...thinks you are worth it. The time and the energy. Old fashioned is a quality you don't often see anymore. A true gentleman. Someone with the heart of a poet. Yes it is appreciated. Much better than the approach that i can only describe...as a bull in a china shop.

Thats not what you said when you felt it

I happen to believe that there are more elevated, consistent men like myself who will take our time with a woman. A lot of what i see from younger, more eager men is they see a profile or something they like and the first thing that pops into their heads is either begging for a number, skype chat, etc.
I have to ask myself have this generation completely lost the value of being patient? Of maybe saying something in a first message that starts with "excuse me for saying so, miss, but i just read your profile and it made me smile. would you mind talking to me so we can get to know eachother?"

It's gracious it's humble and at least it doesnt come off as (insert misogynistic or morally degrading first message here cuz im NOT repeating what i see in chatrooms)! lol

They say nice guys finish last. Sometimes that's true.

But I happen to believe that patience is still a good thing and something to be valued. we may be guys and masculine and wanting what we want....but sometimes our modes of operation don't work for every woman.

Kind of that age-old adage of if a girl finds out how you feel about her right away, she'll run away, be completely turned off or otherwise avoid you like a plague.

I'm sure it's happened to al of us at some point.

we also live in a day and age where more women are asking GUYS out first, which i think is nice to see and very progressive, but it really depends on the girl's approach, too. people respond to different levels of flattery in different ways.

But if some of us exercised a bit of restraint here and there, if more of us recognized ourselves as people who don't jsut fall into bed with just anyone, if we took the time to get to know a girl's mind, her habits, her heart and hobbies - and took those things into consideration before writing our first message to them, and if we see them for more than what's between their necks and their knees (pervs, lol) they'd be more willing to respond, and less willing to block us.

A womans heart is a very fickle thing sometimes, guys.
Learn patience, grow in your wisdom, regard them as human beings in need of the best representation of yourself as can be (but dont be too much of a pushover), and who knows? You might get lucky.
Patience pays off ladies and gents.

Stay classy!

I have noticed you are more depressed and blunt.

I can assume you have been through something in your life.

And, I think it's perfectly acceptable to have a headline which says "clean and sober fun" especially if you are in any recovery.

He'd c*m in his boxer shorts before he could deal with 1, never mind all 72?

OMG..mine is 08...
I am addicted..

Well that depends...Are we falling in love or are we in love?...Sometimes talking about the future too soon makes me want to turn and run...Once my heart is in the ring, I want to know everything about him, especially his hopes, dreams and plans for the future....

Depends on how soon in the relationship they are talking. Like if you're just discussing each others long term interests or ideas thats one thing. But if its only been a week and they want to discuss wedding plans I may have a little bit of an issue.

Yes Newby they do send flowers

I know someone who had this - took me ages to convince her they scamming - in the end Police came and questioned her about the guy.

Now Misty will definitely convert to Islam.