I have recently meet a very lovely lady who I think could be well worth my time and energy. The bad part though is that she is pregnant from her cheating EX. She says she does not want a man in her life and she wants to take care of the kid on her own. I am showing her I am there for her and willing to help her, I have seeked some help and found out the best course of action in my opinion.

1. Drop off flowers at her house.
2. Give her 3 Days to think.
3. Call her and let her know I'm there for her.
4. See if she changes her mind.

What else can I do after step 4?

Im confused now....

Movies

Churches

Bookstores

"Comic" shops

Parks

Walking around

Bike riding

Malls

The girl next door

Which?

Not drinking, they wanted me to go out with them to walk aroud some shops with them. Her mom had a few too many drinks and she drove us there.

I relaly didn't agree with it, but I didnt' resist too much. I knew it would have been bad if I did.

Gypsy, I know, but now what do I do......Where woudl I find a girl that fits me better?

Most places I went were a waste of time.

Roughly 5 months.

Her parents didn't like that I was not as fluid as them, I would plan tihngs out more than be constantly jumping up and doing things. I like to go one tihng at a time, I odn't like to go crazy with things, herm om even wen't to her dads work and drunk.
Thier a wild family, sure, I can live with it.
It would have been ok, but her parents really are just too extreme sometiems with thier ideals, I don't tihnk a knight in armor can even save her family. They said I was immature because I didnt wan't to go out with them when I knew her mom was intoxicated.

I am.
Computer information systems is my goal.

Her parents are really immature to me, they see that I'm not as fluid, they do things of thier own free will without thinking of how it affects thier kids or anyone else.I don't really have much to consider when making small choices, but her mother went to her dads work, drunk.

Her sister argues with the family a lot, mom does stupid stuff, the dad won't talk much at all. It would be a challenge for even the "perfect" guy to get along thier andm ake it work.

As for the military, it has to wait, sorry. I'm not going to do it till I have too, plus Im leagally not able to work in military if they look at how bad my eyes are, unless they changed something.

I try to be honest and such, but most girls in my area are either "Make it fast" or they don't even try to start relationship at all.

As for structure, I don't think I need it right now. My family hates the idea of me joining the military, but I'm very close to doing it.

I got a honest question, no small talk please, but I was thinking of my last relationship. She lived a few miles away, I went to visit her and her parents didn't like me.Now she wants me to just throw everything under the rug and move on.
I will move out and go as far as it takes for something I can live with, a decent job and a decent life is fine by me.I'm nore than willing to go a extra mile or two for something that is going to work out.

I am not a usual guy, I dont jump into something fast or slow, more or less I take it as the lady would want it to go. I really don't know what to think now. I have had a few relationships, none that were so bad. Everything was right till I came home.

So, with this said. What do I do to fix this "gap" I feel in myself when I keep finding women who are immature like this and where would be the best place to find a girl that would want a developing relationship thats not focused on god or work and money?
Age dosent really matter to me much.

I tried movie theaters, malls, parks, etc, in the area. So, I really can't figure out whats next to try. Clubs are a no, I tried to find a friend to get me in a few, no luck.

O.O
I wouldn't work there....

True....

I was wondering if anyone has actually made a really close friend or stayed with somone for more than a year?
Off any website, but my point is I'm starting to think I'm just unlucky, and not given a decent chance.

Well, I guess we'll see.