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Sun 04/22/18 02:28 PM

“A flirtationship is that fun and flirty in-between place of being just friends and without claiming that you’re in a relationship,”

I just came across this word today and wanted to share it here in the forums. I am amused that there is such a word and figured this one should b e in the choices of what people here are looking for. I have been here for almost two years and experienced that a lot of people are just bored or trying to pass time. This word would save a lot of serious people from disappointments and heartbreaks. JMO :angel:


Everyone is going to have a difference in opinion on this subject, depending on what their truely searching for. It's an interesting subject for the forum, although it depends on reality of what happens with in the forum and the responses you receive. You are viewing the site from a woman's observation as what has happened with in the site, since you have been here for two years.

From a males piont of view (mine anyways), flirtationship can only happen if we actually talk with or meet someone we find attractive and interesting. Since joining the site, I have seen changes with in the profiles displayed. Went from being attractive photos of women to naked photos of them. How can you take a naked photo as being serious and only taking up space on the site, or someone displaying a naked photo of a woman that, there now enemies. From the women's side of the site, I do not know, since I do not view males profiles.

Then you have profiles that say nothing or only Hi. More space basicly being wasted on the site and making it more difficult to search out/weed out the female profiles that are real.

Therefore you have to find a real profile and someone of interest before someone can practice Flirtaionship.

It's a fun part of life getting to know someone. Friends with benefits, fun or what? Successful relationship - in someone's opinion? Let's get real about modern day society and how few possible mates we find ourselves attracted too, that they feel the same way, and want to participate in building a future together.

Thousands of different types of dating site. We are adult's we know what happens in life, what's fun, our survival, ect. Age makes a difference in whom we search out and possibly our hope's in our future. How much of this come's down to money. Most site, not all expect men to pay to talk with a woman, why what's the difference in sexes, is this an equal act with in societ, or a way in marketing the oldest profession in the world. Which would be different if people actually found love/partner that way.


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Fri 04/20/18 01:34 PM
Neither gender understands each other perfectly.

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Fri 04/20/18 01:33 PM

Actually once before you start dating someone, you commit yourself and you always do your best to make her happy and make the courtship a success.


Both individuals have to accept each other during the courtship, before you can commit yourself.

Dating is dating and it is still open to stay or leave. I understand that you probably care for her, but she wants it when she is arroused.

Have you tried to have intimacy before leaving for work when your not exhausted from the day. Most women do not realize how hard it is to have intimacy after a hard long day at work specially if your job is highly physical or mentally draining.

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Fri 04/20/18 01:29 PM

the hustles and the long hours of work are so that both of you can have a comfortable life in future. not a sign of ignoring her and her contributions


I thought the reason for your question was due to the circumstances you mentioned just above.

Curious to know though; you are here in the forum does she know?

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Fri 04/20/18 01:26 PM

What is the best way for one to balance his work without leaving his wife to suffer the consequences. we find that the reason most ladies give for cheating is you were not giving me enough time, you over concentrated on your work...


Each individual in society is firstly responsible for themselves. This mean having the personal and finacial means to care for yourself. If you enter a relationship one should expect there partner to have the same out look on life. This is how each of our governments see its' citizans.

She should realize that there are not enough high paying jobs out there to life the life each and every one of us would like to live, but we have to face REALITY. If you work and she does not work than she should most certainly understand what your work towards is for both of your servival in life.

If she does not realize this than she probably only want's someone to support her through life or until your finacial means ends. GOLD DIGGER.

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Thu 04/19/18 07:24 AM
Seasonal Relationships

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Thu 04/19/18 07:22 AM




Shepherds pie


Did you tell the shepherds, you were going too eat their pie? What did he/she have to say to you?


Gummy Bears


No! Did you ask the bears!!


They were speachless

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Wed 04/18/18 06:22 PM




Here's a true WINNER!!! laugh laugh


shocked Gene Simmons’ sister?? spock
tongue2 laugh



So it's easy, then?

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Wed 04/18/18 05:58 PM

Is this the same as looking for an intimate encounter? If not whats the difference? Ive been meaning to ask this before but i keep on forgetting lol.


Use what best suit's your situation. Don't be afraid to approach, men do get tired of always trying to introduce themselves to different members of interest/attraction.

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Wed 04/18/18 05:57 PM



Encounter partner? slaphead alright lol i think words means different things to a lot of people and its how you understand it and believe it that matters. Thank you all for clearing that option here in the what are you looking for question in the profile info. Now if only I could state friendship, relationship, activity partner and marriage all in one word without scaring off my possible dearest slaphead thanks so much again forum friends waving

Relationship includes all your preferences.
A Friendship is a relationship
An Activity Partner is a relationship
Marriage is a relationship
Even
Intimate Encounters are relationships.

Listing that you are 'seeking a relationship' will inspire correspondence when suitors ask what type of relationship you are looking for.
It gives you a chance to be specific with that person.
You can learn a lot about them depending on how they respond.
Plus, they will learn about you depending on how you respond.


Thanks Tom waving i listed friendship coz i think it was the safest choice lol. But kidding aside i feel that friendship would be the right foundation for any other relationships that could happen or could not happen :angel: i do think that even if i change my preference to relationship instead it wouldnt make much difference coz most dont read profiles anyways slaphead


To many do not say anything in their profile.

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Wed 04/18/18 05:46 PM



Here's a true WINNER!!! laugh laugh


Man's or woman's best friend

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Wed 04/18/18 05:43 PM
Edited by SpicyExcel on Wed 04/18/18 05:47 PM
"...Interesting...", electro conductive response

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Wed 04/18/18 05:41 PM

You're welcome Poetry flowerforyou


She love's you

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Wed 04/18/18 05:39 PM
Absents make's the heart grow fonder

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Wed 04/18/18 05:34 PM
Location Proposition

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Wed 04/18/18 05:34 PM


Shepherds pie


Did you tell the shepherds, you were going too eat their pie? What did he/she have to say to you?


Gummy Bears

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Wed 04/18/18 05:29 PM

Ufo's are real


"...Ufo"s..." Is an acronoum

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Wed 04/18/18 05:29 PM

Ufo's are real


"...What three words..."

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Wed 04/18/18 05:28 PM
"...Ufo's are real..." Not three words

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Wed 04/18/18 05:25 PM

Yep laugh with a huge puddle of water under it. Very deceiving that slush grumble

It's going to be mostly sunny for the next 4 days, so most of it should melt... will make it easier to see the little lakes on the corner of the roads laugh

I'm off on Friday, I'll go exploring a little and take some pictures. I love the scenery at the end of my road. It ends down by the water, just a couple blocks away. Round Island and a couple light houses can be seen from there. Looks amazing.



PLEASE DON'T "...end of my road. It ends down by the water...". Should we call and get some professional help for you before you hit the end of the road?

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