$330, and worth EVERY PENNY....hehe I laughed at the memories, and look forward to paying bail agian! :)

Hey, I feel for you. I was the straight laced catholic girl that found myself pregnant in Jan of 05. At 7 weeks pregnant, I was left single too. Left to tell the parents myself, deal with telling the extended family etc etc. This all from the "virgin until married" family of course. At about 6 months pregnant I went to a psychiatrist, I didn't want to go out at all, wasn't sleeping, not eating, just plain miserable. I was on prozac. It took me a long time to even be able to admit that. Now, I have a gorgeous little boy that brings a smile to my face daily and the only tears are tears of joy (mostly...) Don't feel ashamed, and it's not bad that you were "lying" either, it's all a process, and you have to be ready to get the help before anything will help you. Drugs dont do everything, just take a bit of the edge off, what will really make you strong is YOU. Good luck...keep us all posted!

What a cool post! I'm so glad my family is not the only one that has a nickname for everyone! My mom is Nanu, my dad, Remis, my sister is Kowou, Kafer, shaefer and basil, my names are Fon, Leprechaun, Lord (yes, I know, it was Lord Ratacsus and she was Basil) and my brother, though he'd kill me was spanky, but also Jackson (though his name is Jeff). Then the dogs...my one dog we called Ed for a while even though his name was Brutus, he was either fun ed or special ed, dpending on what he was doing. Thor, the other one became Thorman the Doorman...I dont know.
Then...I gave birth to the next generation. My son is 2 now, so he's had 2 long years to get names, and has fared faily well so far. My sister calls him "Squishy" and I think she always will, I call him Platypus Snorfblatt, Sugar Plum, Dude, Buddy etc etc, my mom calls him Honey Bun, little man has been said by the rest of the family. I hope he doensn't hate me for it when he's older, I'm sure he'll be embarrassed someday (like when he's 6'4 and 300 running down the football field and we're yelling "Go Squish" from the stands)
Thanks for posting, it's been really nice to read the responses!

I absolutely belive in love..a lid for every pot. I've loved, but I havne't been loved...maybe I'm missed, who knows. I just hope I left an impression of some sort. I will find true love someday...and sorry..it's not candles and music, it's GIVE and TAKE... if it must be music...it better be country though! From what I'm told, be happy, live life, and be COMPLETE with no one helping you, that's when you find your someone.

Selden :)

I WISH!!! :) Have fun!

Back onto the honesty topic, and I'm new here guys, so dont kill me :)
I'm VERY HONEST and VERY OPEN and I've actually been finding that men
are scared of the honesty, like they dont know what to do with me
because I dont play the games. If we went out, adn I liked you, I'd
call you the next day, not wait the traditional three days that you're
"supposed" to wait. I dont know, why waste the time playing games, if
the relationship is going to go somewhere at some point the games have
to stop, so why even take the time to start them? I have been told I'm
"simple" in my thinking, when it comes to this, that I dont "protect"
myself. Well, if I spend my time protecting myself and hiding behind a
wall when am I going to get to see the sun? I have been lied to (ALOT)
and cheated on. Yes, it does cross my mind, and I am aware that people
lie and cheat, but why should I jusge everyone on the very few people
that have done such to me? That's not very fair at all. In the great
words of Garth Brooks :Life is not tried, it is merely survived if
you're standing outside the fire" I'm jumping in...maybe my arse will
get burned, but hey, maybe it wont! :)