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Thu 03/07/13 08:18 AM
Plain and simple. Yeah, I want my Girl to be my best friend as well

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Thu 03/07/13 08:10 AM

Mikaxe180 I see ugly guy with good character and he loves me sure I will go for him.

That's my girl(hope u dont mind me saying that). I also wish many females see more of character than looks

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Wed 03/06/13 12:52 PM

Mikaxe180 four years ago

Since its been a while, i am not expected to say anything xcept hoping u r coping well.
Btw u have read i like character. But what i want to asj u is this. What if u meet an absolutely ugly person but has an excellent/extraordinary heart?

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Wed 03/06/13 12:43 PM









Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Aha,OK!

But,i never understood what ''nagging''is.....
Somebody educatively enlighten me please?!
No,not because am a village belle,but......

But what, neighbour? May be u females are synonymous with nagging. That's why u never understood it

I meant that in that exact sense-i trully do not understand the word.....
Does it mean a woman over talks to a man about THE same subject,more than necessary?? You do know that some men have selective hearing-could be she needs to know that hubby gets what shes talking about!?
Otherwise,when i talk to hubby about something-once,its not done/noticed,twice-still nothing,then thats it,case closed! I do it myself if its not beyond me,or ask someone else!
Am very playful,i like talking stuff through,discussions and such...I prefer to date a man who i can have enriching conversations with,but,i also have quiet times-where silence is golden!! Also am comfy within myself,so,Kiprotich of the mouth isnt one of my fortes!
But,M,if sisi is blabbering,why not find a quieter lady....for your own peace!?

Nah, this aint blabbering. This is just making casual conversation, neighbour. And I like it.
By the way what I meant by nagging is a woman talks non stop about the same thing repetitively

And you tire of listenning or you dont listen at all??

Joke is on you. There is nothing to listen to here. Only read.
Btw I am doing what most of u females do-may it seem like i didnt understand anything when i already did. This is to teach u females a lesson-dont ask us about a solution of something when u already know the answer

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Wed 03/06/13 12:36 PM


Why do some women give us hardtime with unnecessary talk about everything?


So you have noticed it to. Well to coin a phrase, "She can talk the hind legs off a donkey" which is believed to have come from the fact, that although a donkey is a very hardworking and stubborn animal, when it has had enough the hind legs give way and it sits down, hence the expression, "talk the hind legs off a donkey". Why is it prefixed with the word She, well it is just a woman thing, they just love to blabber despite what they say. :smile:



What shall I say, man? Thanks a lot!

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Mon 03/04/13 12:36 PM







Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Aha,OK!

But,i never understood what ''nagging''is.....
Somebody educatively enlighten me please?!
No,not because am a village belle,but......

But what, neighbour? May be u females are synonymous with nagging. That's why u never understood it

I meant that in that exact sense-i trully do not understand the word.....
Does it mean a woman over talks to a man about THE same subject,more than necessary?? You do know that some men have selective hearing-could be she needs to know that hubby gets what shes talking about!?
Otherwise,when i talk to hubby about something-once,its not done/noticed,twice-still nothing,then thats it,case closed! I do it myself if its not beyond me,or ask someone else!
Am very playful,i like talking stuff through,discussions and such...I prefer to date a man who i can have enriching conversations with,but,i also have quiet times-where silence is golden!! Also am comfy within myself,so,Kiprotich of the mouth isnt one of my fortes!
But,M,if sisi is blabbering,why not find a quieter lady....for your own peace!?

Nah, this aint blabbering. This is just making casual conversation, neighbour. And I like it.
By the way what I meant by nagging is a woman talks non stop about the same thing repetitively

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Mon 03/04/13 10:34 AM





Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Aha,OK!

But,i never understood what ''nagging''is.....
Somebody educatively enlighten me please?!
No,not because am a village belle,but......

But what, neighbour? May be u females are synonymous with nagging. That's why u never understood it

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Mon 03/04/13 09:53 AM


If your wife, or your husband, or your fiance and your mother are in a critical suitation and only way to save one of them is to let the other die. Who will you save your mother or your husband, or your wife, or your fiance. As for I will try to save the two of them but if I can't I will save my husband because two of us are one. understand me I love my mum so much but she has lived her life .if it is between my fiance and my mum is hard for me to let my dearest mum die. Please be honest with yourself if want to reply .

Ofcourse i'd save my fiance`/husband-i dont have a mom,never had,not even in imagination(she passed on when i was 9months and no replacement,all i have for proof,is a grave and a few BW pics)!
So,hubby it is!!

Hey newbie. I saw u r my neighbouring country. I was about to write you but the age limit wouldnt let me. Grt to know some ppl from Africa to see here in Mingle

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Mon 03/04/13 04:53 AM

If your wife, or your husband, or your fiance and your mother are in a critical suitation and only way to save one of them is to let the other die. Who will you save your mother or your husband, or your wife, or your fiance. As for I will try to save the two of them but if I can't I will save my husband because two of us are one. understand me I love my mum so much but she has lived her life .if it is between my fiance and my mum is hard for me to let my dearest mum die. Please be honest with yourself if want to reply .

Honestly, at the moment I cant say. It is really hard to make up the mind now. I think it's instinctive meaning i can decide this at that moment, exactly when i am faced with the situation although I agree with you it's really tough

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Mon 03/04/13 04:06 AM
Minemine2013, thanks for understanding. To be clear which part?
So how long has it been? How r u coping up?

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Mon 03/04/13 01:29 AM

Do guys mellow out and want to settle down? I know it is different for everyone. I get hit on by a lot of 50+ men which I do not mind. They are done with kids and unto grandkids. I bypassed the kid thing and am enjoying other people's children. I know some younger guys want to settle down desperately and most want children. I don't want children. I just wondered if you guys out there had an age where you decided you were content with life.

You know, one is never content in life. It is human nature. When you get something, you want another and another.....and the process goes on

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Mon 03/04/13 01:16 AM



Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

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Mon 03/04/13 01:06 AM

Mikaxe180 I want you understand I'm not in hurry to find a man or I'm looking for just handsome man. My formal boy friend was handsome,lovely ,kind,caring such a good guy but he died after asking me to marry him.I have meet an ugly guy,proud,rude,selfish so it depends ok. Character is more important than beauty that doen't mean that one can't find a handsome guy with good character. I know what I want a good looking guy with good character that is just my desire or but if I can't find it i can go for ugly guy with good character

Hi minemine2013. Sorry about your boyfriend. I mean it. I know how it feels.
I didnt mean to offend you. If I did I am sorry

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Sun 03/03/13 11:26 AM

I remember in High School, there was this really
good-looking guy that all the girls drooled over.
I was very impressed when he asked me out.
Oh man.

He kept fidgeting with the car mirrors so he could
check himself out.
Every time we passed a mirror, I was walking alone
as he had to pause and..shake his hair.
And dumb as a rock.

To this day I am highly suspicious of killer looks,
I always assume that is all there is.
Rarely wrong.
Character is everything.

I applaud you!! You are right. Character is decisive. There is a saying in our language that states it. It doesnt give much sense when translated into english since it is associated with our culture. Here goes-you watered my intestine with butter

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Sun 03/03/13 11:16 AM
Edited by mikaxel80 on Sun 03/03/13 11:18 AM
With all due respect, from your writing it seems that you are undecided about who you want.
This is for Minemine

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Sun 03/03/13 11:11 AM

Some couples live toether for many years before finally getting married. Others marry after just a few dates.

How long do take to get to know someone before thinking about marriage? Is living together a must?

Different for every couple. But if I am in that position I usually take my time to go into marriage. I also like for us to live a couple of months before getting married. But then again, it's as I said-different for everyone

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Sat 03/02/13 11:05 PM

Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?

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Sat 03/02/13 11:25 AM

What individuality or assets does another person have to possess before you are drawn to them in like? bigsmile

Once making “like’s” emotional connection, how easily and quickly do your feelings progress to love? love :heart::heart: love


As I see it, one doesnt calcuate how easily or not to fall in love. When u r in love u cant possibly know

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Sat 03/02/13 09:50 AM





What are the three most important things you want to know on/before a first date?


Availability, personality and confidence
Very close to soufiehere's answer. Have you met? :tongue:

Nope. U a go-between?

laugh Matchmaker? You might not want to trust MY instincts on these things. laugh

Ok. What shall I trust? Afterall there must be something

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Sat 03/02/13 09:40 AM
First of all, is there a relationship that can exist without trust? I dont think so