I have removed some of the stuff in my ad. You can look to see if it's any better. I know what will happen now though, they will all come flooding in and I have to be an *** for either not responding or saying I'm not interested. I feel bad doing that, i would rather them know up front if we might be compatable than to put themselves out there and get shot down. I know how that feels, that's why i would never answer and ad where I thought they wouldn't find me attractive.

I have left these things out of my ad before. I am not being superficial, I have a type that I like and I get nothing but women I am not attracted to if I don't. You can have everything in common with someone, get along great and may even really like them but if there is no physical attraction it is only a friendship. That's fine and all, I could always use more friends but that's not what I am looking for. I have seen in plenty of female ads requests for tall, athletic, men who aren't bald and so forth. How is what I say any different. I don't want someone taller than me, I prefer that they are close to a normal weight and I don't really find a large chest appealing. How is that wrong? How do you suggest I remedy this without compromising my tastes?

Been on here a week or so, have had no contact with anyone even when I have initiated it. What's up with that.