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Wed 11/12/08 02:59 PM
tequila shots

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Wed 11/12/08 02:53 PM
perhaps this will bring a little relief..to all the men who think about gals in their past.

I promise you, they think about you too.

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Tue 11/11/08 10:38 PM


Men these days seen to be out for one thing and one thing only and when they get it you never here from then and if they dont get it you still dont here from them again even after they tell you they really like you.so what is going on with men anyone have any ideas.




You know, i use to read these threads all the time and didn't think nothing of it until this last year or so. I was thinking how there are hundreds of threads like this one that Men/Women do and the last thing anyone will ever look at is themselves. So why is that?


I also have an answer for that question. It's the ones your picking why your in the situation your in, that you would even have to ask a question like this.


The real answer is to not blame on the women its blame on the men.

if a woman is cautious and refuses to believe the woos of the men, she is a bitter, jaded, cold woman.
if she is sweet and believing she is a fool, easy and typical.
In this respect, women can not win.

Every year there is a new generation of trusting women who dont believe that men just want their sex. So every year once they have been fooled you will hear their lament.
just because you know it by now does not mean they do.


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Tue 11/11/08 10:25 PM
I have vistited Vegas about 5 times and of this I am sure.
it is in the desert, everyone in the entire area works at casinos.
they get their fill of tourists. everyday is a new chance at banging something new.

Being new in town is nothing special.

maybe that is why?

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Tue 11/11/08 10:18 PM

So I met this girl on another site...she seemed like my ideal woman. Of course at this point ANY woman would be my ideal woman...but from what I learned about her, she fit the bill. She kept talking about how "motherly" she was and whatnot. I would tell her how crappy of a work day I had because it was rainy and cold, and she would say something like "If I was there, I would already have a hot cup of soup ready for you and then wrap you up in blankets!" I honestly asked her what she was looking for, and she totally sounded like she wanted to find the right guy, and the only reason she was on this site is because she is tired of the guys only wanting sex. Anyway, I got to meet her...we went to a movie, hung out with friends and played board games, it was a total blast. She ended up staying at my place...in my bed, but no sex. I wasn't looking for it, but after the next morning she only talked to me once and never said one word again. I'm not sure where I am going with the story, but I kind of feel dissappointed.


If you were attracted to her, and I am sure she was to you or else she would not have been in your bed...she layed herself out and you did not engage, even after a great night?

How can you not understand why she left coldly?

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Thu 10/30/08 06:12 PM
I am gonna be a slut and have sex with all and any educated men dressed up like Liza Minelli.

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Tue 09/23/08 04:24 PM

This whacko just messaged me telling me I am such a "punk" for not returning his calls or going to see him. I told him four days ago that my dad was really sick. My dad died the next day. It was expected and has been but I had to go to be with my family for a bit. He now is saying that I am still the jerk in this situation. I am sorry...NOT.


sorry about your dad.


I am mysitified why you need advice.

you are gorgeous and is it that you have not received efficient attention?


If that happened, your dad dying, why do you care what people here say?

your dead dad is what you should focus upon, trust me that is paramount (unless you are lying)

internet people do not care. they only go through the motions

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Tue 09/23/08 04:15 PM


full body pics...kinky...how about naked too:banana: :banana: :banana:
Ohhhh yessssssss please do Eric ...pleaseeeeeeee doooooooo!!!


girl, you make me so happy that you are not listening to sad songs.

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Tue 09/23/08 04:12 PM


What difference does it make?


A lot!


where do we show?

your body better excuse your face and attitude

you brat from hell

(I say that in jest, just incase we meet and fall in love and have 7 babies)

Yet, I refuse to procreate with such a heathen who demands of people in such a grotesque fashion.

You should be ashamed for leaping like you do. tsk tsk

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Tue 09/23/08 04:03 PM

Seriously people! Please put them up! From the neck up just isnt going to cut it.

Be yourself and dont be ashamed of who you are..If your big..Your Big! If your small, your small! But dont hide behind just a head shot!

Its obvious..trust me, when you meet? It's obvious.....


what a bully attitude in this demand.

how about you show us first.

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Tue 09/23/08 03:47 PM
Edited by JulieMP on Tue 09/23/08 03:50 PM

Have you ever gotten to a point in your life where the dynamics of it were changing, or needed to change? Did you decide at that point to totally reinvent yourself, or did you just all the sudden realize things were different?


you might not welcome my opinion.

AT 25 I was a licensed professional that supervised a staff that were far older than me. OK.

I had to take off for my mothers funeral and in that time (i took off longer than i anticpicated, but you know..god it was my mom) my superiors transferred me to a lesser location. I resigned.

I took up, for 1/2 the pay as an artist. I got to paint everyday. The rat race would go on with out me.

i am gonna admit that painting was my calling but made me poor.

Next I met a man who was a lawyer and I was escorted to every elegant location that you can imagine. Hotels and celebrities and royalties. He stopped loving me so

Now I am in redneck small town. I am still finacially independant but I came here to cuddle in my sisters embrace. And i still love me, (some) just not those who use me as fluff for their colleagues.

ha
not really ha, but haa, I endeavor to persevere.




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Tue 09/23/08 03:25 PM
I am not sure if this classifies as a quote because it is taken from a poem

"And this maiden she lived with no other thought
Than to love and be loved by me." -Poe

A fav quote that I recollect personally is this

"So what if they stole my car, they probably needed it more than me" -him, the heartbreaker

(that attitude made me grow in fathoms about what kind of person I wanted to be)


and

You, like a blue and golden pearled cloud, waft and waft before me like so much egg foo young.

I didnt put that in quotes because that was mine. That was my intense artistic sentence influenced by jack kerouac. I think it evokes smiles and a need for chinese food.

cool? cool.

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Tue 09/23/08 03:07 PM

Maybe it would help if I posted the reason I made the post in the first place. I was in another forum. Some lady, (very young) had gotten involved with a man from this site who she did not know was married. She had only posted 5x. She thought she was doing something good by posting a warning.

I have no clue how long she'd been on the internet and how savy she "should" have been, that's not my place to judge. But when some of the other posters were finished with her...it was more as if SHE had been the one to do the wrong instead of the man who has misled her. More then one of the other posters had written "what did you expect, this is the internet afterall". That doesn't make it any more right...or because you use the internet to do harm doesn't mean it's OK cause "after all it's the internet".

As far as RL and internet life goes...I don't go into a grocery store and EXPECT some guy to walk up to me and drop his pants and show me his penis. It could happen but I don't EXPECT it. If I were to EXPECT all the crap that happens here, then every time a man sends me an email I should EXPECT that he's up to no good and if a female sends me an email here, I should EXPECT that's she's caught her hubby doing something he shouldn't and my name was on his "friends" list.

If you're using the internet for a business, do you EXPECT to be hacked and all your files stolen...no. Otherwise, you'd not use the internet for business.

What I'm trying to say is just because the internet is what some use as their means to do whatever harm they do, doesn't mean it's any more OK because "it's the internet" then it is to do it in RL and if they did some of the things in RL that they did on the internet, they'd be sitting in jail somewhere.


Well of course not sweet one. It is not okay in real life or through the US post or on the internet. But unlike, as through business, private personal computers are not monitored...and you better think twice if you wish that was the case. Business (i believe) they do anticpate that, and there are restrictions and blocks, that is not what you want.

What I am getting from your lament is that you are a goodhearted person just wondering why others do not share in your integrity and values.

I wish they would but sadly the majority sees this as opportunity for agendas that are not appreciated.

Makes me angry too.



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Tue 09/23/08 02:49 PM
Are you asking for us to tell our insecurities?


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Tue 09/23/08 02:31 PM
Edited by JulieMP on Tue 09/23/08 02:33 PM

I don't come on with blinders, that was like 10 yrs ago when I first came on and at that point I had no clue what could really lurk behind those screens. I've learned. The point, I guess, I was trying to make is that the statement "what do you expect" makes it sound as if that's the ONLY thing anyone ever finds on the internet and I don't believe that the majority of people are EXPECTING what those people who make that statement seem to be defending.


These times are a grey area concerning the internet. All use to be warned of the predators and scam artists. But now the stigma is wearing off.
Kids who were born in 1986, have never even known a life without the internet.
It has become common practice and accordingly more good people have become involved.
Any person with intelligence would rely on the fact that they can decipher predators or bulk**** scam artists. But those scammers too have become more sophisticated.

I do like the fact that I am able to interact with people I would never otherwise be able to meet. It makes anything possible.

But... there is always that but.

I think that the good will overpower the perverted, scamming, corrupt, sociopathic, harmful peoples. At the moment however, I think they have the reins.

Goodness is a plenty in the barrels of bad. I know it is.


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Tue 09/23/08 02:05 PM
I use to do that a lot when I was young an innocent, couldnt wait til I was old enough to find love.

Havent done it since, that is until...

I found love and had my heart broke and then I did it again but this time it wasnt AirSupply.

I think both times I liked the pain to an extent and the romanticism of it all.

I say listen and be romantic then stand up, become enpowered and hunt down a fine man and make him yours. You appear more than capable.


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Tue 09/23/08 01:56 PM

Dude, whats up, you post here that you haven't had a girl friend in 8 yrs, and earlier in the same thread about other women you tried to meet????????
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/167643?page=2


Uh! I empathized with him because of what I had just gone through. man.

took me nine months to get over mine too, i was being hard core to tell him 20 days.

Oh well I skip merrily along. sort of

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Tue 09/23/08 01:53 PM
I still believe in people and love and loyalty. And I have been dating so long it seems almost impossible to sustain this kinda length.

So do not ever let one person have the power over you to make you become cynical.

Okay, if they hurt you, you can let them have that power for about 20 days TOPS. That is only so you can be sad and grieve for the loss... without that time or sadness it might make you inhuman and callous. But that is all they should get!!! (and only if you truly did care about them, if you didnt..no sweat, right?)

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Mon 09/08/08 01:31 AM
am ok

but i waNT A HOT MAN.


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Mon 09/08/08 12:04 AM

I was thinking cheese-steak too but I just remembered this little family owned Italian place in Baltimore that made a Chicken Parmesan sub that will give you a mouth-gasm



edit: F*ck subway


you have nice arms