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Tue 09/21/10 08:34 AM

For me, there's too little info
for me to make judgement calls
about him...
However, it does seem as if
you both have different wants/needs
in regard to the phone time...

If you have to "argue" for it, I
doubt that it's going to change
his mind on it... just different styles.

It's only wasted time if you don't
learn something from it.


Well just so you know at the begining we could of spoken for hours on end almost on a daily basis,,,,but if it was more than a month without a phone call, I think it means you do not care...

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Tue 09/21/10 08:18 AM


Am I wrong thinking after all this invested time something must be up and he is totally a coward not being man enough to call me and being honest with me??
what is your opinion...


I think you are correct on all points you make above. I am sorry this happened to you.

flowerforyou

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thanks for your two cents agoodguy1026, very much appreciatedflowerforyou

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Tue 09/21/10 08:18 AM

i understand that, you used the word "was" which to me is past tense. what i'm saying is that you are better off being alone and having the option of finding the right person than hanging around for the wrong person.


I know you are right I should not hang aroung with the wrong person, it is just hard to turn the page as the whole relationship was fantastic except for this...

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Tue 09/21/10 08:04 AM
kc0003
by long distance I mean we did not live near by, we lived about 5 1/2 hours away from each other.
And it this is just recent....

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Tue 09/21/10 07:47 AM
I was in a long distance relationship for two years and from one day to the next it was over, he dropped me like a log, via email. And his reasoning was, I was complaining too much that He did not call me often enough. Although I would call him but he would never return my phone calls.
Well yes, I was complaining because it was over a month that I had not spoken to him on the telephone and the only means of communication he was responding to was emails. His defense was he was very busy and it was just bad timing.
Am I wrong thinking after all this invested time something must be up and he is totally a coward not being man enough to call me and being honest with me??
what is your opinion...

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Mon 09/20/10 08:24 AM
When you leave someone a message and they never return your callfrustrated

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Fri 08/20/10 12:08 PM
Thinking of why can't people close to your heart, just can't be honest?!?!sad2

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Tue 07/13/10 12:23 PM

WTH noway ??.... we are letting almost a week pass AND NOT checkin with THE Diary ????? come on peeps ..we ain't that busy , are we ??spock

Dear Journal ... its late Monday and ANOTHER short has begun .. look out weekend HERE I comedrinks :banana: drinker


NICE to see you are having fun TTO!

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Tue 07/13/10 12:22 PM
Why can't people be honest???noway grumble

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Mon 07/13/09 06:59 AM

Nothing as usual. Hangin with my son, watching disney pixar movies.:smile:

My favourite movie is the Cars, I love itbigsmile

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Fri 07/10/09 01:39 PM
I can not live without one, when I dont have mine I use the calculator on my cell phonebigsmile

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Fri 07/10/09 01:36 PM
Edited by JUSTSAYINGHELLOO on Fri 07/10/09 01:36 PM


plug every sink in the house, fill them about 1/4 with water and dump in some bleach and crack a window. leave them like that overnight or longer if you can. the bugs will go away. it worked great for me last year.

bug repellant candles sort of work too but they make the house smell weird for quite a while. thankfully i learned that by someone else trying it.


Not to mention if I do "bomb" my kitchen, I will have to tear it apart to clean every single surface, every item and I'm not sure my back is up for that yet. I do have a gallon of bleach and someone mentioned white vinegar. Thanks for the suggestions.

You are welcome, the small bowl of white vinegar always worked for us:thumbsup:

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Fri 07/10/09 01:17 PM



rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Fri 07/10/09 01:14 PM


:banana: Any Plans this weekend? lol:banana:

nope..............none..........

ohwell Is the weather gonna be nice just in case lolflowerforyou

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Fri 07/10/09 01:11 PM
Edited by JUSTSAYINGHELLOO on Fri 07/10/09 01:12 PM

wtg and have fun!!!!!!!!!!!! :thumbsup:

Even though some of us will be working while you are out and having fun!!!!!!!!! :banana: :banana: :thumbsup:

Thanks fran I will be laughing alot for surelaugh laugh laugh
and I will have funsmokin bigsmile
I bought my own home last year so I kinda know what your going through but I am done for now for a while lol:banana:

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Fri 07/10/09 01:02 PM

Doing the small stuff myself, painting, plastering and just learned how to tile so doing one of my bathrooms. Tiles are up so I may grout tiles tonite, seal tomorrow and hopefully I don't end up on the first floor on Sunday rofl

My brother comes in on the weekends to help.

Any good ideas on how to remove mirrored panels from walls, previous homeowner really enjoyed looking at herself in mirrors. They are all over the place. rofl

Sorry I do not, but I will ask my brother this weekend (he is the handy guy I ask these things to) for you and get back to you in a few days (I hope you are not doing that this weekend lol),,,,I am busy this weekend my sweetheart is coming to visit me and I got us tickets to the just for laughs festival galarofl rofl rofl for Saturday nitehappy

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Fri 07/10/09 12:57 PM

I am here a lil bitdrinker

How is it going? loldrinker

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Fri 07/10/09 12:55 PM
Here its finally not raining happy

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Fri 07/10/09 12:53 PM
Edited by JUSTSAYINGHELLOO on Fri 07/10/09 12:54 PM





nothing exciting planned here, just painting and retiling



Oh nice, I like renovating and getting that new feeling of the place again:smile:


Guess I am just overwhelmed, trying to do to much at one time and not enjoying the fact that it's mine.

But thanks for putting it back into perspective for me - I am working on my home, yayyyyyy :banana:




Sometimes we want to do too much, but I think that it human nature, I am like that a bit but at the end you will be able to sit down and say this was worth it, WOW !:wink:


you mean there will be an end laugh

Oh I know, it's just been some hard work and I'm learning a lot.



I hope you have some help and you are not doing it alone:thumbsup:

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Fri 07/10/09 12:50 PM
flowerforyou THANK YOU MJflowerforyou I WILL MISS YOU:heart:

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