Lies are lies.. either you tell the damn truth (the whole truth) or you lie.. withholding information, leaving out a little here and there, not saying anything at all.. it is, what it is.

I didn't look at your profile, but I can tell you that there are plenty of decent men out there (on this site even) as I have crossed paths with quite a few and have met in person a couple.. one of which I'm crazy about and soon, plan to commit myself to wholeheartedly..

It all takes time and unfortunately, when you're not coming across those you wish to, then it's probably time to adjust the bar a little. Sounds as though you might want to raise your expectations of not only yourself, but those you interact with and allow to enter your life (regardless of the level of relations). It's not a bad thing. We're entitled to seeking in other what matters most to us as individuals. Our needs and desires might not accommodate everyone, but there are specifics out there to whom they will (and vice versa). I personally have high standards and refuse to budge much when it comes to people I wish to have in my life. There are many out there whose standards are just as high, if not higher.

Keep the faith and be true to yourself and what you're seeking. No reason to question it dear.. I've been searching for yrs. since my divorce almost 9 yrs. ago. It takes time and you have to be willing to wait or you'll find yourself settling just to have some means of companionship.

Any game that's "fun" "positive" and wouldn't "hurt" another's heart.. I would only pick (bdybildr) as my partner

Well.. maybe we're one of the few who have met our sweeties here on the site.. good luck to you and your new found love.

I'm curious.. did you meet this sweetie of yours here on this site??

Congrats on the little one.. I'm a mother of 2, soon to be 11 & 15 and also had a licensed childcare (when I was married). I can tell you that, at 4 days old, I wouldn't put sugar or anything on his pacifier. Hiccups are good, just let him go through the moment (just as he did in mommy's belly). As for gas, you can lay him over your legs (supporting his head of course w/ your hand) but be sure his stomach is down on your thigh (which will help put a little pressure for release).. you can also lay him on his stomach long ways on your arm, yet holding him against your body for support. Your wrist/palm area of your hand should be some what on his stomach to again, add a little pressure. One way that has always settled a fussy baby in my experience is: when you lay them on both arms in front of you (his head in your hands) while standing and/or sitting and swaying (slowly) back and forth (side to side).. Hummmm to him and play music softly. Another thing that (some) new borns like is, their feet massaged (unless he's really sensitive). I'm sure I could think of a million things.. If you'd like me to give you any other idea's for anything at all.. you're welcome to add me as a friend.

Good luck w/ your little Angel.

Ummm.. I wouldn't..

This I understand as well.. it's one thing to respond kindly in Thanks to "friendly approaches" and it's another to feel obligated to send to those who have no clue how to approach a female (even with a friendly Hello in an email). However, I have it stated in my profile that I may or may not respond, because of what's being discussed here..
Oh well.. what's a girl/guy to do (we can't be right all the time).
Hopefully, my upcoming meeting ends in commitment and then I won't have to worry about all this anymore

I truly don't understand why so many of you people are concerned about getting a response back (especially, a Thanks, but no thanks).. NO response means the same thing. Why should we have to waste our time writing to someone we're not interested in, when we could be taking that time to write to someone we are interested in.. just a thought

<------<-------- There too (though humble)

Isn't your definition of a "hottie" good enough..

I have a pretty d*mn good relationship w/ my ex-husband. However, he's just a friend & the father of my kids (which I'm thankful for; he's a wonderful father), yet still, I can't wait to be w/ my "new" future husband

That's what I was going to say

Ahhh, people don't seem to fond of their ex's.. I don't have mine set to speed dial.. considering it only takes a second to dial the number anyway.. but he's always a call away (if needed in a friendly way or for his children)

LOL.. I'd be the first to open my mouth.. people really must dress in good taste; matching colors & accessories are a must

Ummmm, NO.

Gracey

arching

I most definitely can say NO quicker and easier, than saying YES

Animalistic Pleasure