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Thu 03/27/08 08:38 PM

Why does everyone want to date?huh


Not everyone does.. however, some of us do and are very much dateable material (if only a dateable man/woman would come our way) bigsmile

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Thu 03/27/08 08:36 PM

sorry, new to this still. But not being miserabley taken! Thats why most of us are divorced.



Exactly.. that's why I'm happy now and refuse to settle for what I know isn't right for me and my girls :wink:

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Thu 03/27/08 08:35 PM




dont worry youll find someone who will love you just hang in there


I've been hanging in here for 8 long yrs.. I can go another (just wish I didn't have too) sad

Maybe you are too picky, because from what I can see, you re a beautiful woman and intelligent woman and any man would be lucky to be with you.flowerforyou
isn't the whole point of dating to be selective? Settling for what is immediately available often leads to divorce


smooched :wink: flowerforyou

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Thu 03/27/08 08:32 PM
Edited by PragmaticMind on Thu 03/27/08 08:33 PM



dont worry youll find someone who will love you just hang in there


I've been hanging in here for 8 long yrs.. I can go another (just wish I didn't have too) sad

Maybe you are too picky, because from what I can see, you re a beautiful woman and intelligent woman and any man would be lucky to be with you.flowerforyou


I'm definitely very particular about anyone who enters my life, as well as my daughters. If that keeps me single forever, at least I know I'll still die happy and my daughters grow to understand the importance of "good" people and wise choices (individually of course). I'd rather be happily single.. than miserably taken!

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Thu 03/27/08 08:28 PM

dont worry youll find someone who will love you just hang in there


I've been hanging in here for 8 long yrs.. I can go another (just wish I didn't have too) sad

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Thu 03/27/08 08:27 PM

Not being weird or anything your really pretty!! The men should be slapping themselves for BSing you like they have been!! Oh well they dont deserve your love at all.flowerforyou They should save your love for someone who wants itflowerforyou


Thanks.. I'm not going to change my profile.. I was just curious of what others thoughts were is all. I have far too much respect for myself .. and I refuse to give into a moment of losey sex anyway :wink:
Thanks for the kind compliment though.. much appreciated!

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Thu 03/27/08 08:25 PM

I put intimate encounter on mine, and I didnt get one response from anyone, lol



YOu got one from me.. but I was curious as to why you put that on your profile.. not that I wanted a test ride :wink:

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Thu 03/27/08 08:23 PM

wait a minute i thought i saw a post from you not that long ago saying how you found a guy.....


you're probably thinking of irads new woman ~sighs~

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Thu 03/27/08 08:22 PM

10 times as many pervs.....


I guess I wonder if it'll reverse the responses to those who are more concerned as to why I'd be seeking such.. rather than take advantage of it ~shrugs~

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Thu 03/27/08 08:20 PM
grumble I wonder if I change my profile to "seeking an intimate encounter" if I'll actually get responses from "serious" guys seeking a REAL relationship.. or if it'll just continue with the same boring b.s. I currently receive ~sighs~ huh

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Thu 03/27/08 08:11 PM
hmmm.. doesn't sound as though he's well disciplined huh

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Thu 03/27/08 07:41 PM
I'm still wiping tears.. kind of touches the sensitive side of me.. makes me wish I had someone to adore and vision as such.. Oh well.. maybe one day. blushing

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Thu 03/27/08 07:36 PM
Take Some Time and actually Read this

this is a GUY TALKING...

IT'S 7TH GRADE...


I stared at the girl next to me...She was my so called 'best friend'... I stared at her.... Long, silky hair... And I wished she was mine... But she didn't notice me like that... I knew it... After class she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before... And I handed them to her... She said 'thanks'... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her.... I want her to know that I don't want to be 'just friends'... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...





IT'S JUNIOR YEAR...


My phone rang... On the other end it was her... She was in tears... Mumbling on and on about how her love had broken her heart... She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone... So I did... As I sat next to her on the sofa... I stared at her soft eyes... Wishing she was mine... After 2 hours... A Drew Barrymore movie... And 3 bags of chips... She decided to go to sleep... She looked at me.. Said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know... That I don't want to be 'just friends'... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...





IT'S SENIOR YEAR...


The day before prom... She walked to my locker... 'My date is sick' she said... He's not going to go... Well... I didn't have a date and in 7th grade... We made a promise that if neiter of us had dates.... We'd go together just as 'best friends'... And so we did...





IT'S PROM NIGHT...


After everything was over with... I was standing at her front door step... I stared at her ... She smiled at me... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me like that... And I know it... Then she said 'I had the best time... Thanks!'... And she gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to telll her... I wanted her to know that I don't want to be 'just friends'... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...





IT'S GRADUATION DAY....


A day passed... And then a week... And then a month... Before I could blink... It was graduation day... I watched her... Perfect body.... Floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me that way... And I know it... Before everyone went home... She came to me in her smock and hat... And cried as I hugged her... Then she lifted her head from my shoulders and said 'you're my best friend'... 'Thanks!'... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her.. I wanted to know that I wanted to be more than 'just friends'.... I love her but I'm too shy... And I don't know why...





IT'S A FEW YEARS LATER...


Now I sit in the pews of the church... A church that she is getting married in now... I watched her say 'I do' an drive off to her new life... Married to another man... I wanted her to be mine... But she didn't see me like that... And I knew it... But before she drove away... She came to me and said 'You came!... Thanks!'.... And she kissed me on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I wantd her to know that I didn't want to be 'just friends'... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...





YEARS PASSED...


I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'... At the service they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years... This is what it said... 'I stare at him... Wishing he was mine.... But he doesn't notice me like that... And I know it... I wanted to tell him... I wanted him to know... That I don't want to be 'just friends'... I love him but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why... I wish he would tell me he loved me'... I wish I did too... I thought to myself and I cried...

:heart: (I can't imagine holding within such valuable emotions toward someone) :heart:

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Thu 03/27/08 06:00 PM

wouldn't be great when you start talking with some one they tell you right off the bat if they like you or you don't have a chance.
i hate playing the game does she/or dose'nt she. i would rather be hurt early and save my time then to find out later down the road


Me too sad

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Thu 03/27/08 05:52 PM
Well.. I suppose if any of you here read the multiple conversations and/or simple verbal gestures between me and "you know who" then YES, there were obviously signals either misinterpreted or misleading! sad sad sad

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Thu 03/27/08 12:24 PM

I think women like dressed men until they get to know them better. Pull up your pants and put a shirt on. It's just good manners.


I agree! drinker

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Wed 03/26/08 11:26 PM

Yeah dude just chill. The beautiful ones take their pants off the same way the other ones do...No need to be nervous.


Yet, some have respect for them selves, while others don't. So, they probably DON'T take their pants off the same way ~just a thought~

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Wed 03/26/08 09:57 PM


I never went through such "phase" and aside from that, I find it very unattractive!

No, tell us how you really feel PM


How bold would you like me to be.. are you trying to get me banned here? I've had enough warnings ..

My point was made.. my personal opinion is gothic men and/or women (I'm more concerned about the men).. are very unattractive to me!!

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Wed 03/26/08 09:53 PM
I never went through such "phase" and aside from that, I find it very unattractive!

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Wed 03/26/08 08:43 PM
I've met many from the internet (when I lived in FL.) However, regardless of then or now.. I prefer to communicate via email, IM as well as phone conversations at some point.. but I have only met a couple people without first seeing them on a Web Cam. You might want to see if he has one.. just a thought :wink:

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