It all depends on each persons own perceptive of reality! As with my last relationship, or so I thought it was a relationship, that lasted 3 months, it was nothing to him yet meant everything to me. So...whether through a website like this or in person.....just be safe and use your own sense of judgment on what reality is. Any red flags, walk away!

On the flip side, I think that going through websites can be very informative. It does make two people have to talk through means other than in person. Then you both can mutually decide to meet in person (in a public place of course) and go from there.

I am looking forward to meeting people and seeing what happens!! Good luck to all!!

So to extend your question...I have found that the older one gets, seems like the sooner sex is talked about or even performed way before you even decide if you actually like the person enough to continue into a serious relationship. Is this the norm?? I haven't had to be concerned with this in years and now that I am out looking, I see that it seems to be the norm. Any thoughts?