not if i can help it

I have to agree with angelinboots. It seems a lot of men(no offense guys!) are looking for much younger women. They are passing up mature, loving, experienced women for eye candy! Such a shame

I have mixed feeling about a new guy I met who said his lawyers suggested that he get a legal separation rather than a divorce so the wife can continue on his medical plan. She is needing a liver transplant. What do you think I should do?

This is very interesting. I am finding that younge men are much more respectful and treat their women like a queen. I get hit on my much younger men....meaning...middle 30's up to 50. I find that very interesting. When I ask the reason for their interest in more mature women...they say...they are more fun, more understanding and not as materialistic. Just to show you ladies and men the other side of the coin.

if it is invisible how can it be red. that makes no sense

Hmmmmmm, I must be getting the wrong kind because mine always came with a price.

in fate.
have you met anyone here that you just click with.

It's weird that even old unattractive and out of shape 50 - 60 year old men think of women the same age as not good enough even though some of us look better than they do. Most want younger women. Men have such high self esteem even when they themselves are less than perfect and that is why us not that bad looking older women feel like crap about ourselves. I have come to realize I don't need a man to find happiness because I have family and friends, my work and my dogs. I don't feel desperate to have a man in any way but wouldn't mind finding someone who is genuinely caring and interesting and someone who can handle being with one woman......oh......and an income....I don't want to be someones sugar momma. Until then I am perfectly fine with who I am and with being alone.