I like to think I am all those things, but have just spent 3 years defending myself from unfounded accusations. Too many girls can have that man but just can't see it, as they are just too prejudiced towards men, for whatever reason. The answer probably is that those men are out there, but the ones who get them are the ones who can read men correctly, and most women can't.
I am single because I got tired of it being assumed that if my partner wasnt there I will be jumping the first thing that moves. The truth is I only know one person who is like that,me and all my friends are normal blokes, wanting a normal life and I am out there now despite trying to be the perfect partner, simply because, she can't trust.