well even though i wrote that i dont agree love does hurt cuz i love someone who cant love me back and it hurts so what do i do i do everything that i can to make tehem love me but it still doesnt work makes me hurt even more drugs other girls and killing urself wont even work cuz even if they dont love u back they do care and if you do something stupid it will hurt them. so do u wana hurt the ones u love f u c k no well i dont but i did so s h i t happens but why cant i just move on and get a new gf what did this girl to do me. really?????

Love does not have to hurt but it often seems to. When you listen to the music of love you will hear it telling stories about the pain and sorrow of unfulfilled love. Someone left, someone cheated, or someone died and left someone sad and alone. Love is such a strong positive emotion that it is inevitable that there will be some pain associated with it at some time. This is Nature's law of opposites. For every force there is an equal and opposite force to hold it in balance. As much as our love would soar as a bird on the air, there is gravity to bring it back to earth…sometimes falling but usually gliding.

Passion, is a bird on wing in the thin air of the highest sky without a net. Passion is blissful delight. It's exciting, thrilling, and we feel so alive. You remember your first love and you always will while those that follow diminish in the distance and fade in the past.

First love and passion unlock so many feelings that it's hard to describe them all: euphoria, peace, tenderness, tingling, jealousies, and complete connection are but a few. Passion is a sweet anesthesia that blinds us to anything that might come between us. Love, in the passion stage, holds a power for that moment that can overcome everything.

When judgment is replaced with passion, people tend to make different decisions than they otherwise would. You dated and maybe even married that person even though you sensed that there were major differences between you. You somehow thought that they weren't important or that they would change. Then you realized, when the passion wore off as it always does, that maybe things weren't as great as you thought. That realization and the following break-up were hard. It hurt. It seems as though love always hurts.

The truth, however, is that love does not hurt but it is the falling out of love or not having love that really hurts. And the higher you are, such as in the heights of passion or the tower of a long-term love, the harder the fall. A break-up, divorce, death, or abandonment are some of the most painful experiences of life because we miss our love so much.

We all need two things in life 1. To not be alone or feel alone, and 2. To be appreciated and loved for whom we are. Love brings us together and loneliness reminds us that we are missing something in life. You may not even understand it but the forces are there. We seek fulfillment in the love of others when we often need to love ourselves just as much.

"Love is the passionate and abiding desire on the part of two or more people to produce together conditions under which each can be, and spontaneously express, his real self: to produce together an intellectual soil and an
emotional climate in which each can flourish,
far superior to what either could achieve alone."

soldier boy are u positive they are girls u are sleeping with. or u in the closet and like it up ur ass cuz if u are thats cool. so what are his names that u sleep with? steven, james, or the CAPTAIN??????

omg i hate it cuz i miss the cuddleing and the sex and the careing about someone. i miss knowing that there is someone who cares out there

bad_girl tats not funny not trying to be mean but old people have alot of loose skin just hanging there i wonder how that ***** is NASTY not like i know but must just like hang there lol sorry girls older girls not trying to be mean but idk

omg i new it was lol i dont think iv been in love never really wanted to get hurt but its just something to think about

good ?

I’m losing what’s left of my dignity
But ill fight till the end for her heart
Ill never give up for what’s possibly
For better for worse this love must be cursed

idk what to say about this. but when u fall in love with someone that doesnt love you back hows that supose to work. whats the purpose of trying to make that person love u when u know they wont.

love is a evol thing notice how i just spell love backwards and it kinda spell evil i mean is love really a good thing or is it cursed?

plz let me know what u think.

thanks

if you. . .you should. . .

Never leave the one you LOVE
for the one you LIKE

because the one you LIKE will leave you
for the one they LOVE

the one you LIKE will give you goosebumps;
the one you LOVE will make you laugh
and send shivers down your spine.

When the one you LIKE cries, you feel sorry for them;
but when the one you LOVE cries, you cry for them.

True Love Doesn't Have A Happy Ending
BECAUSE True LOVE Never Ends

tonight your true LOVE will realize how much they love you.

between 1 & 4 in the morning,

tomorrow the shock of your life will occur.
if you break the chain then you will have
bad luck....

If you REALLY LIKE (or LOVE) SOMEONE right
now
AND MISS THEM and
can't get them out of
your head then repost this with
the title "never leave the one you love"

yea i would. the ? is are u really looking for a relationship or just ****ing with people heads. are you willing to take a step forward in life? really now think about that before you reply

no just kinda studied about it and i didn't right all that im not that smart i just sit at a computer all day at work and have nothing else to do. i just love my job.. but still really are there any real girls out there who really want someone special in there lives. someone now don't tell me you dont miss the cuddling up with someone at night or just havening great sex lol.

anyone around there wft are there any real girls even out there or are u all spam and check me out for money and watch my fake ass cams if ur real let me know cuz im sick of bull **** girls

"If you want to have the kind of relationship that your heart yearns for, you have to create it. You can't depend on somebody else creating it for you."

THREE STYLES OF RELATIONSHIPS

People generally tend to relate to each other in one of three ways:
Dependently, Independently, or Interdependently.

People in dependent relationships spend much of their time
fighting about who has to take care of whom.

People in independent relationships are often lonely.
They spend much of their time out of each other's sight.

People in interdependent relationships do whatever is best for both partners.
They make sincere, reliable agreements with each other,
based on their separate wants and needs,
and they stick to them.

We can be happy - at least for a while - in all three relationships.
But we can only feel genuinely secure when we become interdependent.

DEGREES OF DEPENDENCE, THEN AND NOW

These three types of relationships correspond to stages of personal maturity.

+

Infants are born dependent and remain primarily dependent until at least age 15 or so.
+

Healthy teenagers become independent and remain that way until at least age 20.
+

Healthy adults can become interdependent after age 20 and for the rest of their lives.

[The ages stated here are only statements of an ideal.
They hardly relate to the real world at all.]

If you ever get to the point of having a truly interdependent relationship
- in which there is never any bickering about who has to take care of whom
and in which there is almost never any unnecessary loneliness -
consider you and your partner mature and very, very lucky!

Dependent people think of independent people as detached or even self-centered.
Independent people think of interdependent people as stodgy or boring.
Interdependent people think of both other groups as immature and too predictable.

OUR STAGE OF PERSONAL MATURITY IS PARAMOUNT.
We can't even imagine being at a different stage than the one we are in!

We form relationships with others who are at the same stage of personal maturity as we are.

YOU ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

You only change your level of personal maturity when you get what you need.
It does no good to try to be in a different stage.
It does do a whole lot of good to get what you need!

Dependent people must get enough love, attention, and protection from others
before they can become independent.

Independent people must learn that they can survive on their own
before they can become interdependent.

You are more important than your relationship.
Get what you need and you will "advance" in terms of personal maturity.
And if you and your partner are even minimally close,
you will automatically bring your partner along with you.

CAN WE "SKIP" THE INDEPENDENT STAGE?
No, we can't. It's a necessity.

But some people who have remained dependent long into adulthood
only need a very brief independent period
before they become interdependent.

ABOUT CHOICE

No one chooses to remain dependent all their lives.
Everyone wants to get enough love, attention, and protection to outgrow dependency.

Some people do choose to remain independent all their lives and, supposedly,
they can be happy that way without feeling a need to become interdependent.
[I say "supposedly" because I was taught this by people I respect,
but I've never really met anyone who was independent
and happy about it past the age of 35.]

Nobody reverts to an earlier stage of maturity unless they have to.

If you know what you need
and choose people who can give it to you,
the rest is automatic.

"If you want to have the kind of relationship that your heart yearns for, you have to create it. You can't depend on somebody else creating it for you."

THREE STYLES OF RELATIONSHIPS

People generally tend to relate to each other in one of three ways:
Dependently, Independently, or Interdependently.

People in dependent relationships spend much of their time
fighting about who has to take care of whom.

People in independent relationships are often lonely.
They spend much of their time out of each other's sight.

People in interdependent relationships do whatever is best for both partners.
They make sincere, reliable agreements with each other,
based on their separate wants and needs,
and they stick to them.

We can be happy - at least for a while - in all three relationships.
But we can only feel genuinely secure when we become interdependent.

DEGREES OF DEPENDENCE, THEN AND NOW

These three types of relationships correspond to stages of personal maturity.

+

Infants are born dependent and remain primarily dependent until at least age 15 or so.
+

Healthy teenagers become independent and remain that way until at least age 20.
+

Healthy adults can become interdependent after age 20 and for the rest of their lives.

[The ages stated here are only statements of an ideal.
They hardly relate to the real world at all.]

If you ever get to the point of having a truly interdependent relationship
- in which there is never any bickering about who has to take care of whom
and in which there is almost never any unnecessary loneliness -
consider you and your partner mature and very, very lucky!

Dependent people think of independent people as detached or even self-centered.
Independent people think of interdependent people as stodgy or boring.
Interdependent people think of both other groups as immature and too predictable.

OUR STAGE OF PERSONAL MATURITY IS PARAMOUNT.
We can't even imagine being at a different stage than the one we are in!

We form relationships with others who are at the same stage of personal maturity as we are.

YOU ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

You only change your level of personal maturity when you get what you need.
It does no good to try to be in a different stage.
It does do a whole lot of good to get what you need!

Dependent people must get enough love, attention, and protection from others
before they can become independent.

Independent people must learn that they can survive on their own
before they can become interdependent.

You are more important than your relationship.
Get what you need and you will "advance" in terms of personal maturity.
And if you and your partner are even minimally close,
you will automatically bring your partner along with you.

CAN WE "SKIP" THE INDEPENDENT STAGE?
No, we can't. It's a necessity.

But some people who have remained dependent long into adulthood
only need a very brief independent period
before they become interdependent.

ABOUT CHOICE

No one chooses to remain dependent all their lives.
Everyone wants to get enough love, attention, and protection to outgrow dependency.

Some people do choose to remain independent all their lives and, supposedly,
they can be happy that way without feeling a need to become interdependent.
[I say "supposedly" because I was taught this by people I respect,
but I've never really met anyone who was independent
and happy about it past the age of 35.]

Nobody reverts to an earlier stage of maturity unless they have to.

If you know what you need
and choose people who can give it to you,
the rest is automatic.

Do you need to wash yourself again to hide all the dirt and pain
'Cause I'd be scared that there's nothing underneath
But who are your real friends?
Have they all got the bends?
Are you really sinking this low?

Where do we go from here?
The words are coming out all weird
Where are you now when I need you?

Do you need to wash yourself again to hide all the dirt and pain
'Cause I'd be scared that there's nothing underneath
But who are your real friends?
Have they all got the bends?
Are you really sinking this low?

Where do we go from here?
The words are coming out all weird
Where are you now when I need you?

Do you need to wash yourself again to hide all the dirt and pain
'Cause I'd be scared that there's nothing underneath
But who are your real friends?
Have they all got the bends?
Are you really sinking this low?

Where do we go from here?
The words are coming out all weird
Where are you now when I need you?

Maybe mistakes are what make our fate, without them what would shape our lives? Maybe if we had never veered off course we wouldn't fall in love, have babies, or be who we are. After all, things change, so do cities, people come into your life and they go. But it's comforting to know that the ones you love are always in your heart.

I WROTE UR NAME ON LEAF,
THE WIND BLEW IT.
I WROTE UR NAME ON A ROCK,
THE RAIN WASHED IT AWAY.
I WROTE UR NAME ON MY HEART
THAT IS WERE IT WILL STAY

Maybe mistakes are what make our fate, without them what would shape our lives? Maybe if we had never veered off course we wouldn't fall in love, have babies, or be who we are. After all, things change, so do cities, people come into your life and they go. But it's comforting to know that the ones you love are always in your heart.

I WROTE UR NAME ON LEAF,
THE WIND BLEW IT.
I WROTE UR NAME ON A ROCK,
THE RAIN WASHED IT AWAY.
I WROTE UR NAME ON MY HEART
THAT IS WERE IT WILL STAY