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Sat 02/02/08 01:47 PM
try being with someone for more the 5yrs and not get ur heart broken ok when u do that then tell me i dont have the right to try to get help and im only 19 and she was my only girlfriend so yea

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Sat 02/02/08 01:44 PM

Aw come on.....stop whining! The reason you are feeling so bad is because you were wrong and you can't admit it. Just admit you chose the wrong person and move on. Why the heck would you even want to be with someone who treated you like that?
You have no idea how cool God is.
God is love. He loves you and he loves the girl who broke your heart. Start trusting Him to find the right one.
And pray for this girl,.........that she will find the right one. It's not you. Get over that thought. ALl our thoughts are not right. Everything we do is not led of the Lord.
Everytime someone is killed or raped, it's THEIR will doing it. NOT GOD'S! If people knew God, they would know that God is love as the bible says. God doesn't kill or rape or cause people to feel unloved.
He wants to give you peace and joy and a life of blessing. Stop getting in the way and stop acting like a child who freaks out when they don't get their way.
You don't want a person who deson't love you. Get it?
As soon as you get it, you will be OK!
KK



it may not be me but i started dating her when i was 14 and we broke up this Christmas so yea not meant to be thing sorry out of the ?

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Sat 02/02/08 01:40 PM

I've been very nice...lol, but I think you ignored me b/c of me saying I'm not Christian. Haha, its okay.


you are a sweetheart

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Sat 02/02/08 01:36 PM


well i left when i was 16 from home so guess u could say i ran from my family which was the worst mistake of my life now im trying to get them back in my life but its hard


Again, just giving advice, not cutting down or the like. I too left home at 16, because I was working full time and still finishing school. I have a strong belief in God, but I am in no way "religious", because that is just man's way of trying to bring God down to thier level so man can better understand God.

I learned many things very early in life. YOU are responsible for your life. YOU control ONE PERSON in this world..that is YOURSELF. Life is NOT FAIR nor does life care about ANY individual. God gave us all brains...try to use them to the best of your ability..you will still hit potholes and bad times in life..just not nearly as many. Live life like each day was your last. Smile laugh and love as much as possible. And ALWAYS stand for what YOU believe in! bigsmile drinker flowerforyou



and when i said someone had a head i was talking about this person and another so yea people if u got things to say just say it cuz really it helps if u believe it or not

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Sat 02/02/08 01:34 PM
thank you that really means alot theres someone out there with a head

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Sat 02/02/08 01:32 PM

man up. its not. gods fault,life is not fair. get use to itgrumble grumble grumble if she don,t want you move on be a man about instead of a wimply cry baby,god does things in his own time not yours so do not blame himmad


ight check this out mother f ucker im not crying im just asking for advice cuz i do hurt and i do want her back but in someways i tried to move on and all it did was make things worse and last week when i was hospitalized she was right there everyday for 6 day ever night she stayed with me and now since im out she wont speak or anything so yea get a life and think

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Sat 02/02/08 01:27 PM

That's just ridiculous!!!.. God doesn't micromanage humanity!! "God" didn't "let" anything happen-- You met that woman for a reason and the reason was to simply have some type of experience with her or be enlightened by her in some form or fashion--even if it was merely to pose your question and spur a response out of me-- but inevitably you did gain something from being with her the limited time that you had but simply to naive to realize such... But when all is said and done ---you are the one inevitably responsible for the interaction-- not necessarily physical you perhaps spiritual you-- and spiritual you merely wanted to have a limited interaction with her which it did and when the time was up it ended---Period!!! - Get a grip.. you obviously missed the important lesson and hence are expectedly disappointed.



hu???????????????

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Sat 02/02/08 01:24 PM

Well, (not flaming here), if you are a preacher's son, he did not do a very good job of teaching you who and what "God" really is.

"God" and "Satan" play very small roles in our lives. God created everything..you want him to just lay life out on a silver platter for you too??

No! What you are running into is HUMANITY! God gave us ALL free choice and a brain to THINK with.

Don;t be blaming HUMANITY chit on God or Satan, neither most likely had nothing to do with it. At least 95% of the time it was HUMAN actions that caused whatever.

Just as some "Christians" believe that every child is a gift from God..as if God has a specific hand in each one. NO again! God put that ability for almost anypne in his "grand design". Hell, Charles Manson can have a child and so can most other very bad people we would NOT want breeding.

So to say "God" is letting you hurt..BS! You hurt because you are HUMAN and because of the choice YOU made. We ALL go through that..so don;t put "blame" on God. happy flowerforyou



well i left when i was 16 from home so guess u could say i ran from my family which was the worst mistake of my life now im trying to get them back in my life but its hard

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Sat 02/02/08 01:21 PM
but really this girl really is killing me like really why does it hurt and why cant i just let her go and move one would'nt that be easy or does God just wont me to suffer idk you tell me

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Sat 02/02/08 01:15 PM
ok im a preachers son and God said in the bible that he wants what right for us. and i think this one girl is right for me but all i got was a broken heart why would God let u hurt soooo bad u wanna just die

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Sat 02/02/08 12:55 PM
Do you need to wash yourself again to hide all the dirt and pain
'Cause I'd be scared that there's nothing underneath
But who are your real friends?
Have they all got the bends?
Are you really sinking this low?

Where do we go from here?
The words are coming out all weird
Where are you now when I need you?



I DIDNT RIGHT THIS PART BUT ITS GOOD
* Have you ever noticed that the worst way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and yet you can never have them.....when the moment you can't feel them under your fingertips, you miss them?

* Have you ever wondered which hurts the most; saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing and wishing you had?

* I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. They are the things you get ashamed of because words diminish them, words shrink things that seemed timeless when they were in your head...to no more than living size when they are brought out....

* Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...but if you don't, you might break theirs.

* Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?

* Your heart decides who it likes and who it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own.... when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.

* Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?

* Too many of us stay walled because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or at all.

* Have you ever loved someone and they had absolutely no idea whatsoever? Or fell for your best-friend in the entire world, and then sat around and watched him/her fall for someone else?

* Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?

* We tell lies when we are afraid.. afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie.... the thing we fear grows stronger.

* Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have, or could have had. No one waits forever...

~~ Author Unknown ~~

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Sat 02/02/08 12:42 PM


DARE U TO MOVE
amazing swtichfoot song.




and a walk to remember is a amazing movie lol mandy moore is hotttttt

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Sat 02/02/08 12:37 PM
idk but forreal ya'll girls bs to much online like really is it that hard to go out with some one giveing them a shot? i mean ever heard of

DARE U TO MOVE

talk a f u c k i n g step in life any try something ok thats all

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Sat 02/02/08 12:29 PM
ok u girls on here to date right ok just making sure u talk to guys for like a week or two even on the phone tell them yea i wanna hang out and then when they say he would u like to hang out you say no wft is up wit that come on girls u gotta take chances in like move ur asses and stop sitting there getting fatter eating chips and talking on the computer there is no such thing as COMPUTER DATING you cant date someone by just talking to them ok sorry just had to share my thoughts

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Sat 02/02/08 10:13 AM
yea a friend sent that to me in a email and i thought i would post it so he must of got it from there

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Sat 02/02/08 10:02 AM
nope some of it got it from a friend.

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Sat 02/02/08 09:33 AM
meaining like talking on the phone when times get hard sometimes u just dont wana talk to ur friends

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Sat 02/02/08 09:29 AM
hey if u have verizon and u like to talk to people let me know cuz sometimes i just have to talk to someone know what i mean

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Sat 02/02/08 09:20 AM
I DIDNT RIGHT THIS ITS A SONG
No matter how hard I try
You keep pushing me aside
And I can't break through
There's no talking to you
It's so sad that you're leaving
It takes time to believe it
But after all is said and done
You're gonna be the lonely one

Do you believe in life after love
I can feel something inside me say
I really don't think you're strong enough
Do you believe in life after love
I can feel something inside me say
I really don't think you're strong enough

What am I supposed to do
Sit around and wait for you
Well I can't do that
And there's no turning back
I need time to move on
I need a love to feel strong
'Cause I've got time to think it through
And maybe I'm too good for you

Do you believe in life after love
I can feel something inside me say
I really don't think you're strong enough
Do you believe in life after love
I can feel something inside me say
I really don't think you're strong enough

Well I know that I'll get through this
'Cause I know that I am strong
I don't need you anymore
I don't need you anymore
I don't need you anymore
No I don't need you anymore

Do you believe in life after love
I can feel something inside me say
I really don't think you're strong enogh
Do you believe in life after love
I can feel something inside me say
I really don't think you're strong enough
Do you believe in life after love
I can feel something inside me say
I really don't think you're strong enough
Do you believe in life after love
I can feel something inside me say
I really don't think you're strong enough

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Sat 02/02/08 09:00 AM
i dont lie most of it from a friend that wrote a book and i changed it and frazed it myself aka tried to lol