misswright,

I think there might be some confusion here. I'm talking from connection to build rapport only. I don't put woman in a parameter. Yes woman are very complex and I'll never understand them, however if a person learns about her personality it will help them to work better with her. I'm just promoting the importance of men paying attention to their partner. I have had some success in this area when it comes to personalities. Every human is made up of at least 2 personalities and yes at times their made up of all 4. In my opinion, when I meet my soulmate, my goal is to build deep levels in our relationship that will sustain for many years to life. She is completely worth that. I hope this clears up any confusion from my end. Thanks for your response.
Jay

Sandelwood4,

I not putting women in a box. I've studied personalities and that is factual info. I talking from a stand point of connecting and building rapport in relationships. I appreciate and agree with your response.

Jay

Sorry blueeyes2000, I have alot of information to share. That's just a tastes. Thanks for your response!!

Jay

Yes I agree, singmesweet! Thanks for your response

that's alot to write down...however I would say after you have listened and gathered her important information, then use that for conversation. Girls want us guys not only to listen but to engage them.
Hope this helps

Jay

Ok Here's another question for you...

What's your favorite thing to do on a sunny day?

Yeah, I did pretty much every answer except shower outside...interesting. thanks for all the comments, I enjoyed them!! Sorry pyxxie13, didn't think about Seattle when I posted this lol!
Your so right.

Thanks

The first thing you need to know is that humans are made up of 4 personalities. I'm not going to get into detail about that, but I will describe 4 different types of woman:

The Driver: She is powerful, bottom line, straight to the point. She is driven in what ever she puts her mind to. All about business in every aspect of the word. Think business woman

The Talker: She is outgoing and very fun, silly and likes to have fun with anything she does. She is very colorful and usually matches her whole outfit. She love to shop, take pictures and is very social. Think a dancer or actress.

The Thinker: She is usually in charge of something, like a doctor. She has a great memory and has an attention for detail. Good at remembering names and conversations. Always asking questions. Loves conversation. Think a doctor

The Watcher: She is all about support and very loyal. She will do anything within her power to help someone. Very sensitive and fragile so be careful how you talk to her and your tone of voice. Also great listeners and usually very kind. Think caregiver

Ok. So how do you attract her? Review the information above and find out all about her and how she does things and fall in love with them!! Here's a bonus: Find out what her personality is and her love language and speak to them!! You'll have to look up love languages...
Take care
Jay

Be interested in her. How?

Ask her questions about her, listen while she is talking, take mental notes of important things all about her...Level 1

Then take those important things about her, one by one over time expanding the questioning to find out detailed information about her...Level 2

Why? So you can always keep the relationship fresh and that will prove to her that you are for real and you really care about her...matter of fact it will prove that you love her!!

So ask yourself, when would you have time to look or be with another girl when most of your time is getting to know your girl?

Here's another word of advice: Never stop learning about your girl, even into marriage...In my opinion that's when it could be the best...although I'm not married I'm looking forward to that.

There's so much more, but that's for her...
Take care
Jay

Just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Jay Hall, I'm 31 from Pittsburgh, Pa. I'm looking for a new friend that could turn into something more...minus the sex right now. I'm looking for a girl who is not having sex right now. I don't care if she had sex before, because I have. I would eventually like to get marriage and she is worth the wait. I'm sorry, please no big girls either. I'm looking for a athletic girl that cares about her health. Let's talk!!

Ladies, what's your favorite thing to do on a rainy day?