I direct this at some of the posts from "older" men:

frankly speaking, from experience, when you consider that a woman peaks sexually around her 40's and a man peaks around his 20's (give or take 5 years) I think its easy to understand the attraction from a woman's point of view.

Trying to develop a romantic relationship becomes more challenging because of the age difference but its not impossible.

Hey if some young buck wants to get his rocks off with me, then bring him on he'll be in for the surprise of his life...The notion that an older woman is grateful for the attention is absurd, unless of course you understand that its really nice to have someone in bed that can finally keep up with you....

Turn offs:
*photos of you with another woman or obviously cropped from an "old family photo"
*not into the fitness nut thing (activity is one thing, nothing to do but work out is another)
*bad spelling and poor grammar
*negativism or being hung up on how that 'cheating, lying woman did me wrong'
*poor or no attempt at getting a decent CURRENT picture of yourself, if it's blurry or taken 7 yrs ago, you're wasting my time

Turn ons:
*serious and smiling photos
*genuinely looking for more than a one night stand
*kids are important
*having no time for a relationship
*educated

(thank you crackerjack123, i stole this format idea from you lol)

The only thing he didn't include was her shoe and bra size