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Mon 06/18/12 01:32 PM
Well Jeanie sorry there I have to disagree. I have in the past personally ministered to Al-Qaeda members and as a journalist I did talk with them online. They are very much real and they are in no way a fabrication of the Government.

Sorry its not that the US hasn't covered some stuff up in the past. As has every Government but Al-Qaeda is very much real as are many of the terrorist groups!

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Mon 06/18/12 01:27 PM
Lpdon have you ever read the Quran? I have!!!
Alot of the rhetoric and hate spewed isn't in the Quran itself but other holy texts or so called holy texts. Much like Christianity Islam is not a single belief. Their are several different denominations each with their own prophets and scriptures.

Now I have read several of those other scriptures and they are horrible. But they are not all in the Quran.

Also have you read the Old Testament at all? If you call yourself a Christian then you must have! Now wasn't the Old Testament the word of God? If you say no then you are not a Christian!

But wait why don't we stone Homosexuals in the streets? Because Jesus came and died for our sins he shed his blood for our sins, hence the existence of the Gospels.

But now wait Muslims don't believe Jesus came, they don't believe he died for our sins? They don't believe in the gospels.

So now compare their Quran to our Old Testament!

Now can you honestly tell me that their Quran is worse then our Old Testament?

One last fact Muslims believe in our God. They believe in the God of Abraham they believe in the Bible and old testament. They are misguided of course but they are not evil.

Lastly yes I am very aware that most events like this are being funded and held by the terror groups and their supporters.

Ask yourself why?

Because by holding these events they can manipulate innocent Muslims.

Osama once said President Bush was his hero for bringing America to the Middle East.

Osama and these terror groups want to turn the innocent Islamic believers into terrorists. But in order to do that they need an enemy.

What better way to breed hatred then get a ton of ignorant idiotic Christians to persecute innocent Muslims?

Do you think burning a Quran helped in any way stop hatred? Do you think it did anything to stop the terrorists?

Ask yourself the terrorist groups use the "The crusaders are persecuting and killing our brothers we must slaughter the infidel" now do you think the best way to stop that group is "Lets totally persecute these aholes maybe if we hurt them enough they'll stop".

I know several amazing Muslims.

Story a Canadian Forces unit in Afghanistan got hit by an IED and were strayed they were immobile and taking heavy fire. They had no back up and air support was 15 minutes out. A Muslim farmer came out of his home to the group of Christian and Atheist soldiers and called them into his house to shelter them and give them a chance to fight back. He then gave them food and shelter for the day as they fought for their lives. The man asked our soldiers to remember that the Taliban are not Muslims and always remember him when they got back.

It was because of that brave man and his family who selflessly sheltered a group of Christian and Atheist soldiers that our brave men and women came home.

He saved their lives if he hadn't offered them shelter they would have all been killed. Some were injured I believe one came home without his legs. But that brave Muslim man put his own life and that of his family in danger to help a group of Canadian soldiers.

So when you stereotype all Muslims as terrorists and their whole faith as evil terrorist faith. Maybe you should just shut up, you spreading hate like that is what the terrorist groups want!

Also read the Quran and study Islamic theology a bit before opening your mouth about it.
Jihad is intended to defend your faith not to persecute others, study Islamic history a bit too. In the early Church Christians and Muslims were both being persecuted and Christians helped Muslims and Muslims helped Christians.

We lived side by side in peace!

So please learn a bit about the Islamic faith before opening your mouth and spewing hatred. Also a good knowledge of the Old Testament could benefit you as well.

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Mon 06/18/12 12:51 PM
As a Christian I am sincerely sorry to any Muslim who was hurt or got the wrong idea. These Christians are a minority much like terrorists are a minority of Muslims. These Christians don't represent the Biblical teachings of Christ. Even if they consider Muslims to be enemies the Bible says "Love your enemies do good to those that hurt you" not grab pitch forks and go down town screaming yelling and being filled with hate.

I am so sad when I hear how the Southern Christian bastardizes our faith. Burning Qurans screaming hate filled statements, yes we don't agree and yes we believe each other are going to hell.

But if anything we should have compassion for those who we view as going to hell?

I mean shouldn't we? If someone is going to burn for eternity is it a nice thing to sit their screaming and yelling at them "Your going to burn" sorry that's horrible and unforgivable!

I personally attend the Canadian Religious Peace Conference, each year I love to talk with the Imams representing the Islamic faith. Why? Because we respect each other and yes I believe he is misled and he believes I am but we respect and love one another.

These hate filled people are destroying the world. Whether its these hate filled Christians or the hate filled Muslims.

Lets stop the endless cycle of hatred shall we. I mean seriously why cant we love each other and respect each others choices? Do we not all have the right to freely choose our beliefs?

Again I am so sorry to anyone who had to put up with this! Its not Christian!

My Pastor preached about this just weeks ago.
The sermon was called "Can a Christian hate" in which he specifically mentioned the pastor in the US who burnt a Quran and a pastor who called for gays to be put in a concentration camp. He said how can they call themselves Christian? A Christian is supposed to love all and hate no one "They will know we are Christians by our love"!!

Also just so you know I am not a supporter of Gay Marriage I'm not a hippy I'm not a United Church member.

I don't condone sin, but I'm not going to persecute those who are stuck in it. I'm not going to inflict pain and hate anyone I view as lost or misguided. Because it is wrong how can I honestly say I love my neighbour as myself and then stand their screaming and yelling and physically attacking him?

So sorry their are good Christians out there too! I hope nobody judges us because a few bad apples do horrific things like this. Much in the same way if your Muslim you don't want others seeing a guy blowing up woman and children representing your faith!

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Mon 06/18/12 12:03 PM
Go to church, if your scared go to a house church. Or maybe your church should preach smaller services all week long to keep the numbers as low as possible making an attack less likely.

But don't let those God less cowards scare you, Boko Haram is an organization fed by fear and intimidation. The Bible is very clear if we allow fear to rule our lives we will destroy ourselves.

Now when I say fear only God I'm not saying God is necessarily going to protect you. What it means is your going to heaven you have nothing to fear for they can blow you up, they can destroy your earthly vessel but they cant kill your soul!

These men who are killing innocent woman and children and unarmed innocent civilians they are cowards. They aren't Muslims I know real Muslims those in Boko Haram are the lowest life forms on the face of the earth. Do not allow their hatred, wicked and absolute lack of respect for human life and dignity scare you.

Also be careful you don't let them make you hate! Boko Haram wants a Holy War they want to provoke a war they want Christians to lower themselves to their level. Don't allow hatred to consume your hearts, remember Muslims are simply misled they aren't all bad people.

If you allow Boko Haram to harden your heart if they cause you to hide in fear, then they've won!

I was asked to be a pastor in the United States a few years back, if I was a pastor in Nigeria and preaching to my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ.

I would have a specific message, go out of your churches and help the less fortunate Muslims. Send food to the impoverished areas. In any area where you can do so safely go in and show the the love of Christ.

Boko Haram feeds off of hatred, they are trying to create hatred in the North they are trying to make their fellow Muslims think that Christians are out to destroy them, that this is a war!

It is not a war between Christianity and Islam. Its a war against cowardly God less scum bags who feed off of peoples pain and rule with fear!

I hope if you are living in Nigeria you know that you have the support of the global church. Our church here in British Columbia, Canada prays for you regularily as does a large amount of other churches. In prayer we show solidarity with our brothers and sisters in Christ!

Evil will never prevail, don't let yourself ever believe otherwise!

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Sun 06/17/12 11:30 AM
My expectations that I hold myself too make my achievements look really miniscule and I'm not proud of what I have achieved though most say I've achieved a ton I have not yet achieved what I want too!

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Sun 06/17/12 11:19 AM
Would I date a girl who's already dating a guy?

Heck no, that would be completely unethical and totally unfair to the poor guy. Plus a girl who will cheat on her current boyfriend won't have a problem cheating on me when I replace him. I'd much rather avoid a woman like that.

But if you are looking at a hypothetical if you were single and a daring relationship was possible yes I would.

But your not single and we couldn't date anyways so no sense in even talking about it further lol

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Sun 06/17/12 11:06 AM
Never have gone on one, wouldn't go on one unless I was being set up by someone I trusted. Im not just going to go out and see a woman I know nothing about, never seen before without knowing someone else checked her out first. If a close friend set me up I'd trust their judgement, but I certainly wouldn't just go out with a random person!

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Sun 06/17/12 11:00 AM

cause we was born with a weenie and we don't want it to rust smokin


That's what marriage is for lol! Not promoting a life of celibacy here just promoting self control and respect. I'm a guy I'm not blind and yes I would love to screw like a million girls, but I want something more then screwing girls I want to have a girl I love and care about. I am more then willing to put aside my carnal need to screw a girls brains out to earn the love and respect of a girl. Plus in reality I would much rather have sex with a girl that I love and respect who loves and respects me then a thousand super models.

Sex is something that binds two people together it is intimate and it should mean something. Its not like I haven't had ample opportunity to get laid, heck I'm pretty sure if I didn't tell the 20 or so women who messaged me that I was and intended to remain a virgin. Pretty sure I could gotten laid pretty quickly.

Thing is I don't want to get laid, well I do just not with just anyone. I want a girl I love first!

So that's where the issue is, heck once married I'd be up for anything she wanted lol. I'm not that conservative minded. What I am however is a gentleman and a gentleman waits and respects the women he dates!

PS, according to Zoosk I'm a Tiger lol. Said I'm a dominant hormone heavy sex addict, now it is wrong in many of the assumptions but trust me I'm not against sex.

I just think sex is something that is special and that a guy should respect a women and a women should respect a guy. If a guy cant respect a women who wants to wait any period of time till marriage and a women cant respect a guy who wants to wait any amount of time till marriage.

Then both should ask themselves who they actually want? Because if they truly wanted a loving and caring partner they would respect their beliefs.


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Sun 06/17/12 10:43 AM
I'm on the fence, if someone has a severe alcohol addiction or a food addiction etc..etc.. maybe you shouldn't be dating them if you want to help them. I think a friend often has as much pull in getting someone help as a girl friend does. At least if your a friend you aren't abusing your relationship, if your dating and ever hope for the relationship to reach marriage you should be sure the person is who you want.

Don't start dating someone and then try changing them. If they aren't who you want wait till they are, this might be hard but wouldn't you rather have them drop their addiction of their own free will for their own good then to do so just because you say so?

If I'm a coke addict I'd far rather get married to a girl who loved me and respected my choice then one who manipulated me into dropping coke. Because if I do it of my own free will for my own good then it is something I will stand by. If I did it for you, secretly I'm probably always going to wonder if I genuinely wanted to quite.

As for services to help addicts. Their is absolutely no shortage in the United States or Canada. If you cant afford a rehab clinic their are churches everywhere and most of them would be over joyed to help you.

Alcoholics Anonymous is everywhere and their are support groups for sex addicts, porn addicts, drug addicts, shopping addicts.... you name it their are others struggling with it and they'd be over joyed to help you with your problem.

If its your boy friends problem which it appears tl be. Then he needs to be the one who decides to get clean. If you don't think he wants to, maybe you need to go for another guy. I haven't seen all that many addicts successfully ditch their addictions without genuinely wanting to of their own free will!

I mean I've seen tons who went to rehab because their families sent them. Within weeks of being out they were back exactly where they began. Why? Because they themselves never wanted to stop in the first place!

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Sun 06/17/12 10:01 AM
Ill put this bluntly. If you say you want a gentleman but won't date a virgin, your a lair. Plain and simple your a liar because if you did want a gentleman you wouldn't care in fact you'd probably be turned on!

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Sun 06/17/12 09:59 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with those poor victims. Boko Haram needs to be put down, this is what the 10th attack on two months. Though most of the other attacks haven't been this bad!

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Sun 06/17/12 09:54 AM
How are all the women inadequate? My only standard is I'm a virgin and she needs to respect that! Of the now 25 girls who emailed me even though they don't share my beliefs I did give each of them a chance. I replied to each one, I did to most of them say "If you want a real gentleman I'm totally interested, but I am abstinent till marriage and if you are looking for a sexual relationship I'm not interested. I want a girl who wants a real relationship and if you can respect my beliefs I would be happy to get to know you".

The reason I don't just contact all 7,000 is because I'm not interested in a sexual relationship. I want a real relationship built on emotional and spiritual connection not sex.

Is that so much to ask? You obviously think it is!
Look if you live nearby and I find you at all attractive and you are willing to respect my beliefs. I'm interested.

But if you aren't and you don't want a guy who isn't looking to get in your pants then I'm not.

Which is why I don't approach any girl not looking for a guy like me.

I've had many good Christian guy friends who dated girls who wanted sexual relationships.

They finally screwed the girl and were dumped. The girl didn't want a gentleman and she didn't respect their beliefs. They were idiots to have thought a girl who didn't say shed respect their beliefs actually didn't!

So no Sophie maybe you just don't see me as good enough for you!

Also I have had no shortage of girls who I have tried to start relationships with over the years. They do almost all come around after years and years like the one who is now knocked up.

I would date her today if it wasn't for the fact that she ignored me for 7 years.
Right now I'm seriously considering just going with a hottest who's after a career and money. My starting wage next year is 150,000$ and I'm going to be handling over 20 million dollars. That's just to start.

I think Ill just do what everyone else in the industry does, find an actress or a model who wants me for my career. Or find a girl who wants me for my money! It saves me from going through all this bull ****!

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Sun 06/17/12 03:02 AM
Hey so I'm from Abbotsford British Columbia moving to Vancouver. I recently realized when I graduate from film school I will be getting a butt load of money every year. A producer pulled me aside and told me that I needed to find a girl fast before my career takes off. I need a good girl because once my career takes off all I will find is gold diggers and girls trying to screw me for their careers.

So I went in search of a girl who is looking for a gentleman.

Now I have spent years getting put in the friend zone, years having girls treat me like crap because I'm a good guy.

I hoped online I could find a girl who genuinely wants a good guy, so if your from Vancouver and want a real man, one who isn't going after your privates and isn't after anything but your heart, check my profile nudge me and I will see if you fit my standards.

PS, I'm a virgin, by choice I have been a journalist a law enforcement officer and many other jobs, I've been a VIP at several establishments and the movie theater.

Despite my looks I have had over 12 woman ask me out in the past in person. Online in two weeks J have had 20.

I would have no problem getting laid, in fact I had girls giving me numbers constantly a few years ago in the night club.

I'm not interested in those kinds of girls. I want a girl who will respect my choice to abstain and actually means it when she says she wants a real relationship.

So if your from Vancouver or the lower mainland and actually want a good guy, message me. If you don't want someone who is a virgin it shows you don't want a good guy. You kid yourself if you actually believe a guy in this day and age is a virgin for any other reason then choice. Any guy can get laid, if you want one who doesn't want your tight *** then date a virgin!

Any takers?

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Sun 06/17/12 02:33 AM
Sorry I've been on 7 dating sites in the last two weeks. I need to find a girl before my career takes off, I become a movie producer by next year.

I approached only Christian girls who attend church and who say all over their profile they want a genuine relationship not based on sex.

I'm an old school Christian guy who actually is abstinent by choice.

So I contacted the few I could find that appeared to genuinely want a guy like me. Out of the 7,000 or so profiles I filtered and scanned over. I found only 100 or so girls that actually described me in their profiles.

One girls description was so accurate she even said she wanted a guy over feet tall with short brown hair caring blue eyes, not muscular pretty boy but not obese either. Loves dogs and my Pomeranian (I own a Pomeranian myself). She wanted a virgin according to her profile, she said she wanted a guy who was intelligent, a writer possibly (I'm a journalist well was till this month). She wanted a guy who will cuddle her she wanted a guy not from her city who would drive out of his way to see her. A guy who likes to cook and values women as equal partners in the relationship. A guy who is at least 23 (I'm 23).

Anyways her entire description down to her likes in movies and books. Her attendance at church every week, her volunteer work.

I was absolutely everything word for word what she claimed she was looking for. So weird that I showed my friends and they thought I made her account myself to show a girl who actually wanted me.

So I decided to send the girl a rose, I only had two and I wrote on the letter how I was so stunned to see how much her profile described me. I asked her if she could view mine and confirm that she was actually looking for a guy like me.

She opened the letter with the rose, viewed my profile and blocked me.

Blocked me, I don't know why. I only sent one message, was it the rose? I thought that was a good gesture. She wanted a guy like me, she described me word for word.

But she blocked me!!!

Out of the hundred girls who claim they want the abstinent church going Bible reading respectful gentleman.

Not one girl returned a single message. Not one!

But guess who did?

I have on the 7 sites combined gotten roughly 20 girls looking for a gentleman to wine and dine them and then give them an amazing.orgasm.

They want the guy who is amazing with foreplay and will treat them the way they deserve. Apparently they will totally make it worth my while.

So now the problem comes. Why are the girls who want a abstinent good gentleman completely ignoring me? Even on sites with the match making system a girl was 99% match and after viewing her profile it was nearly as much of a match as the girl I sent the rose too.

Did that girl reply to me? Hell no! Who did? A chick with a 22% match!

So I have to ask you, what the **** is wrong with these women?
They all ***** and moan about their horrible ex boyfriends they want a real man. But guess what they don't I fit their description entirely. Even with the match makers I fit their description no lower then a 90% match.

But it isn't the girls who say they want a good guy that are contacting me, its the girls wanting to be ravished and to be romances into bed.

Girls are ****ed in the head is what I'm learning. Its been that way my whole life.

Every girl I know claims they want me. Every time they get dumped by their last scum bag boy friend they always show up to cry on my shoulder. My past female friends have called me on the phone and talked for 10+ hours at a time. They come to me every time they need advice they come every time they need a real man.

But guess what, I asked out each of them. Their response I was too perfect they wanted someone with flaws. Then they get dumped again and their back crying on my shoulder asking where this perfect man is, I'm sitting right here are you fricking blind?

Finally they get knocked up and I give up. Guess what a girl I asked out about 8 times now. She's knocked up has a kid and suddenly after like 7 years she wants to go out with me.

Like hell I'm going out with her now! I mean seriously you have me sitting their for seven fricking years and now after you were left with a kid, now you suddenly want the good guy!

F U is all I can say!

I recently ditched all of my female friends. Because all of them were exactly like this.

If I'm the perfect guy, and you want the perfect guy! Why the heck haven't you accepted a dang date yet!

I'm seriously getting sick and freaking tired of this crap, which is why I finally came online. I hoped maybe out of thousands of women I could find a girl who actually means what she says!

But alas none do! They all want another scum bag and the whole thing is just going to repeated itself until the girl is sick with aids or knocked up. Or as one of the girls I knew in foster care killed herself, why did she kill herself? Because according to her note every guy just wanted to **** her. Well I personally know a guy who loved her and she treated him like ****, he is an amazing guy and he cared and he's a church going virgin. When she died it destroyed him!

Well why did she die? Not because all guys wanted to bang and dump her.
she died because she was so freaking blind, so into her mans man scum bag guys. That she failed to see the guy right infringement of her freaking face.

So please I have no sympathy at all for the girls getting screwed and dumped. Their are thousands of great guys that they are ignoring on a daily basis. If you want a good guy go to a church go to a aid organization go to a volunteer job.

Their are good guys all over, all you have to do is open your eyes!

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