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Sun 04/12/09 06:07 AM




Hey, I need this picture in "chocolate".

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Sun 04/12/09 06:06 AM



I've got the idea that it's an abbreviation for a thick girl, but what exactly does BBW stand for?


Big Beautiful Woman.


Ah! I figured it was Big Booty Woman


Now that made me laugh out loud.....laugh

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Sun 04/12/09 06:04 AM

"Did you walk or did you ride away?"

If you saw someone who was obviously troubled with something, would you ask if they were alright (keep in mind this is a complete stranger)? Or would you continue along your way? If you continued along would you wonder if they were alright?


I'd have to stop and offer assistance. I'm a softie.

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Sun 04/12/09 06:02 AM

Freud once said (paraphrasing) that those thing that annoy us most about other people are often those we, ourselves, are guilty of.

Maybe it wasn't Freud... come to think of it, it could have been Bugs Bunny in the Barber of Seville episode. Oh, well, Happy Easter to those of you who celebrate it. To all others... good morning.


LMAO..rofl

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Sat 03/28/09 09:28 AM
if you are in disguise, doesn't that mean you aren't who you said you were.....lol

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Sat 03/28/09 09:26 AM

cell phone and cash for a cab just in case!


ditto!!!

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Sat 03/28/09 09:15 AM


women like transition jumping from one man to the next...its a self insecurity abuse problem or issue they have with the fears of being alone...they ride it out with the current fish till they find another...


While this may be true for some people (men and women), I don't believe it is the majority and certainly not limited to one sex. When I left my ex his initial response to me (like a threat) was that he loved me but that he "can't" be alone. I left him with the hopes that things could be worked out with counseling (he's an alcoholic) but his only concern was that he was going to be alone. Within two weeks he was already jumping to the next "unsuspecting" lady.

These were the actions of one man, and I don't believe all men are the same. Hopefully, you will meet someone who will take that bad taste out of your mouth and inspire trust.


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Sat 03/28/09 09:00 AM

why is it so hard to find a nice woman.i'm not sayin all are bad but dang it seems like when i meet someone they start out cool then make a 360 change.i'm not the kinda guy that judges a woman on her looks cause i know i'm not the hottest guy onthe planet.i'm not a thug or anything like that.i guess i'm old fashion kinda guy.i have tryed lookin for love on 2 other site and there are eaither married or party girls or porn bots.now i'm on here with the same thing no luck.


I am wishing you good luck and perseverance on your journey, don't give up because she is out there.

My question to the ladies and gentleman on this board is how do you define the term "nice" in reference to people. From what I've seen in the past, everyone is looking for someone "nice"; meaning someone who is perfect for them, agrees with them and has the same hopes and aspirations. I think it takes a minimum of 90 days of exclusively dating/committing to a person before you get a glimpse of who they really are. People are afraid to "let their hair down" or show their self-defined faults, for fear of running off a potential mate. Let's face facts, would you ask for a second date from someone who tells you that they have an inability to committ; premature ejaculation; their an alcoholic; their wearing a wig or toupee; they can't keep a job; they snore; they're lazy; etc?


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Tue 01/29/08 10:42 AM
Welcome to JSH, have fun.

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Tue 01/29/08 10:24 AM

I agree age is nothing more than a number


I couldn't agree more.

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Tue 01/29/08 10:23 AM

Hi was rejected after chatting for over a month with someone without a reason or answer to emails. Would everybody just rag on me or run me down so i feel better. Thanks. your turn:smile:


Maybe you need a spanking with a rag for letting her get to you. Let's be positive, something may have happened and if not; it is definitely her loss. Keep searching.

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Tue 01/29/08 10:17 AM
Edited by injoi on Tue 01/29/08 10:19 AM
Yes, I have a friend who met her boyfriend (now husband) online and he was several states away. Because she has a child and shares custody with her ex-husband, her new husband relocated to Texas.

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Tue 01/29/08 10:16 AM
I don't think it is a good idea to date on the job. If you break up and start dating someone else who also works there it will be a nightmare.

Of course, there is no one on my job to date so perhaps I'm just a "hater"....LOL

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Tue 01/29/08 10:01 AM

:nowayAnyone else in a dating slump?


HELL, IM THE SLUMP LORD!!!!!!!:wink: :heart: smokin


Then I'm the SLUMP Queen. A date --- what is that? It's been too long.

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Tue 01/29/08 09:40 AM

I just dont get it? Turned down twice this week. I am not going to cry. Just furious. I have no negative qualities. I am confident, responsible, dependable, just makes no sense.


You are a hottie, it's their loss.

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Tue 01/29/08 09:38 AM
It sucks but let it go. I agree with you that hanging out for a day doesn't constitute a relationship. If the two of you were to get together you would end up hanging out with the other guy if they are best friends.

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Sat 01/12/08 08:58 PM

Even though I have a strong background in clerical work, it seems as if I'm overlooked due to being overqualified or under qualified. Why can't employers use their brains and realize that people in their 40's aren't dead and could be retrainable if given a chance? Anyone else facing this hard challenge?


I totally understand. It seems that companies are seeking people in their 20's because they are "moldable" and when you are over 40 you can't learn new things...what a crock. My company has given me until 2/29 to seek other employment due to RIF, so I definitely understand where you are coming from. The prospects are not great (even with an MBA) and it is also tough because I'm a single parent with a kid in college.

Anyway, we didn't bypass 40 within tough times - we always survive.

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Thu 01/10/08 09:25 PM
You certainly know how to make a girl laugh.....laugh

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Thu 01/10/08 09:20 PM
I feel ya!!! Every man has a little bit of "chubby chasing" in them....right guys??

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Thu 01/10/08 09:17 PM
I finally posted a brief profile (very brief) but it is nice to meet ya'll. Although I'm a newbie to online socializing; good conversation is always welcome.

Injoi
Houston, TX