Yes its hard i cant find any good guys,ive been looking hard for years now,date sites, text date,chat date, postal dating agencies,my defination of a good guy he gets to know me as a friend first wants my mind not my body,takes me to the cofee shop on the first date not ask me to bed,polite loyal and doesnt cancel on me ten minutes before the date sees me quite often.say twice a week if hes near to and every 2-3weeks long distance,and of cause that the travel isnt all one sided and a polite guy that we say cute stuff to eachother, i dont think im asking to much but i never seem to find anyone,like that