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Okay, count me in but once again I'd have to draw the line at pull ups and parallel bars...
I think I'd look forward to high diving and skeet shooting though... 
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Let you dress his penis up in barbie clothes  
Sounds uber kinky but wth... I'm game as long as barbie's horse isn't involved. Got to draw the line somewhere... |
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not make you sleep on the side with the wet spot...
(mom raised her boy right) |
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Topic:
Try it again
Edited by
AllenAqua
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Thu 09/02/10 09:53 AM
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I hate texting... Won't do it... Nope... Not even naughty ones??? dirty, sexy, raunchy ones??? 
Well, I'm not saying that I can't be persuaded... 
(NEW TEXT MESSAGE)btw, ur hawt! meet me 4 nsa @ room 69 ? (END OF TEXT MESSAGE) 
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Narcissism vs neurosis?
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A lady that lives off some dead guys pension and complains about him and all men for her problems... deserves a good wake up call. Gawd that burns me 
In hindsight, she never hid her true colors... Right from the start she declared that she was a victim of thoughtless men who only want one thing. I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt by not asking for more than mutual respect and attempting to be open and understanding. I don't understand ultimatums though so I'm bowing out... I still wish her well and hope she finds what she's looking for... One of the above posters nailed it I think when they explained that " I think when we find love, we forgive what we otherwise would not..." I need to work on that, perhaps... |
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Narcissism vs neurosis?
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Goodness!! In a heart beat  
Thank you for that... Of course I'd promise to strive not to embarrass you with my barnyard ways (oink oink) while in front of your mom...
haha, such the gentleman-pig!! Sorry that it didn't work out for ya this time... happy that you've come to a conclussion that lets you move on!! Best of luck! 5's Ted, and thanks man... 
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Narcissism vs neurosis?
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Seriously, Im sorry this happened Al. Its only because your a compassionate man that you were hung up. Sounds like angels did you a favour though, and saved you a world of grief.
It stings a little, I'll admit, but yes... I'm aware that things could be worse... Thanks so so much for your compassion and sincere counsel... I don't take that kind of thing lightly.
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Narcissism vs neurosis?
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Goodness!! In a heart beat
Thank you for that... Of course I'd promise to strive not to embarrass you with my barnyard ways (oink oink) while in front of your mom...
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Topic:
Narcissism vs neurosis?
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Update for all those concerned...
Last night she helped me make up my mind by leaving me a long and emotional voice message which essentially questioned my interest in her since I didn't answer the phone ( I was in the shower ). She left an ultimatum that if I wanted to see her again, I should call her back within 15 minutes... ( I didn't...) I'm glad she made it easy for me... Onwards and upwards for me now... Anyone want to date a "pig" ? |
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In 20 words or less
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It allows anonymity while substituting the tactile for the virtual thus keeping us secure with only an illusion of familiarity.
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I believe in true love because I believe in me... I have a good handle on the concept of romantic love because I've both won and lost at it. I understand now that it's not something you say or just feel, but rather it's something you do...Love is a verb, an action word... It describes my own eagerness and capacity to care 100% about the well being of another's identity and values...
Some say love is a primal instinct, meant to insure continuation of the species, but I believe it's a force that's both within us and outside of us that encourages us to drop our barriers and look honestly at ourselves in relation to another... In true love we find a reflection of ourselves that allows us to overcome our ego and bask in the understanding and acceptance of another. I believe in it because I'm confident that I'm ready, willing and able to put in the work that's required to make my love tangible and worthwhile to another... I believe in true love because I believe in me... |
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Consider Me Gone........
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yeah... passive/aggressive people get on my nerves...
Better luck next time
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Topic:
first "weed" commercial?
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It should be legal for adults... Even though I don't use it (anymore), I'll vote that way if ever given the opportunity because the penalties are so much worse than the offense.
It's the ultimate hypocrisy for anyone to sit back and imbibe on the cocktails or whatever and then have a problem with legalizing marijuana... imo |
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Topic:
Soul Mates
Edited by
AllenAqua
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Wed 09/01/10 06:21 AM
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By my understanding of the term, I guess I have yet to meet even one soul mate in my life... I've never felt that kind of connection with anyone...
I WANT MY SOUL MATE !!! 
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mornin Ted
Yeah... I'd think that if it's true, there would be serious implications...On the other hand, maybe not... What happens to all those cells? heckifIknow... |
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I once read that every single cell in your body is replaced every seven years or so...
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Topic:
Try it again
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I hate texting... Won't do it... Nope...
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Just wondering what you do? I became aware that my oldest son is gettin' married; he never even told me. I learned through my sisters and mom. He's gettin' married October 10th. He's already sent out invitations but didn't invite me to his wedding. I'm devastated. Saw him on FaceBook today and asked him if he was getting married. He said "yes". I let him know that I was hurt that he never told me; nor did he invite me. His response was, "I'd thought about inviting you for a year; and, wasn't sure you'd come?" Are you kiddin' me? Then, he preceded to continue saying that he'd told everyone he wanted me at his wedding. NOW, he invited me. As a mother, I am SO hurt. To top it off; my sister's never told me they'd gotten their invitations. Called one of my sister's today; her response was, "Well, I waiting to see if you got one." So? My question is this: "Would you go after NOT being invited initially?" My opinion is that he should have invited me; I shouldn't have had to bring it up. Otherwise, it's like inviting myself to his wedding, which obviously he didn't want me at to begin with. I am SO upset right now. With my son; my sisters. As some requested the rest of the story: The divorce between his Dad and I wasn't good. My son holds it against me; always did. David, my son, and I have NEVER had any issues other than living in different States. We aren't close; true. But, I'm his mother. And, family is the most precious thing that we have in life. Forgive me for coming in rather late in the discussion but my take on parenthood is that our children don't ask to come into this world. We invite them and therefore owe it to them to be good hosts. As a father I'll always owe my children a certain unconditional love and even after they're grown I'll show that love in the form of guidance as a role model. My children don't owe me anything. Their reciprocation of my love and devotion is of course something I desire over practically anything else. Anything else, that is, except comprising the very principles I need to adhere to in order to be that good role model. I have to realize and accept the concept that they are their own people and my love can't be determined by how they show (or not...) love for me... I have to depend on those times we shared when I DID have the opportunity to teach them right from wrong and then let the chips fall where they may... If your children don't give back in the ways you'd like, it feels horrendous at times, I know... In the end though, if they felt your love, you'll feel theirs... jmo "And in the end, the love you take, is equal to the love you make" Beatles |
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Topic:
Narcissism vs neurosis?
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i live by one simple rule when it comes to dating..if the other person always has a reason why its "the other guys fault" for their short commings, Im headed out the door and walking away as fast as possible...I lived with someone who had a severe personality disorder..it never gets better, all it does is wears you down until you just dont give a turd anymore.... I can relate to that. I wonder if I was wrong to have been so patient when I stuck around, or am I wrong to have no patience for such things now? ...not that I would change. I just cant do that anymore. I agree with you that it never gets better. I prolly have my own disorder in thinking I can reason with them. I wonder what Allenaqua thinks. I'm still mulling it all over. On one hand, I'm leaning towards agreement with the posters (thanks to all) who advise that it's likely a lost cause and I should run screaming. This makes practical sense to me because I know I can't nor should I even want to change anyone. I am taking it all seriously because of a few key attributes that the person in question displays every time we talk seriously. On the other hand, she's really attractive to me and has the kind of smile I'd like to wake up to every day... I wish we'd met earlier in life, but I know that wishing is for fools. I kind of feel like I'm going to regret whatever choice I make... There has been some sound and thoughtful advice and I'm grateful for all the wisdom bestowed in this thread. It's ALL helpful so thanks everyone, I really appreciate it... |
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Miss Ruth???? I haven't stalked anyone now for three whole hours... May I come out of the closet now? These cuffs are beginning to turn my wrist green...
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