I think you're missing one of the key ingredients in any servicemember's life. Spouse's have an incredible effect on whether the member stays in or gets out. I see it more as way of appreciation what military spouses do more than anything. There is no civilian equivalent to this, so I don't think anyone can give you a good opinion on without first being in this situation (i.e. a military spouse, NOT a servicemember). BTW, I am in the military and have lived both married and single life in the service as well and much longer than yourself.
I can't believe you would gripe about a special pay that's less than $100 a month given most families do experience losses when a spouse deploys. In the military, just like in civilian life does there are many dual income families, which does require additional childcare. As for housing allowances, ask any military member and they will tell you BAH/OHA does not cover all of expenses it is advertised to cover.

youre not a player

lucky guy

I want those legs

my oh my those arent frog legs looking at me

I might not make over, have to keep trying when u bend over

I'm a card player Uno is my game, I like all women just the same

But this game taught me something new,, Never screw a girl there unless you want brown stuff on you

You said twister was your game, and I must say in a booty I have never came

right foot now down on green, hell my leg is full of your cream

Left hand on Blue, damn was the fart from you

Right hand on red, Oh My goodness it just slid where you had bled,

Right foot on Yellow, the other in the air, I'm all up in your booty, and how did I get there

nice view of you bent over...left hand yellow

right foot red

Lets play naked twister now

youre a damn fine player

oh yea you won me

whats the problem?

I might need some help with my underwear, think maybe you can help take them off?