Dave how long have you been in Kalamazoo? You have friends there?

See this is the problem; There are thousands of women out there feeling exactly like you are but nobody communicates anymore! We live in this bubble that regulates our feelings and emotions things that should never be supressed or ignored but we try to fit the status quo and do what's expected. I never lived this way! If you see someone you're attracted to on the street, check for a wedding ring, if there is none...handle your business. Women get with A##holes everyday and you seem like a decent guy so get out there and get yours.

Kiteman I completely understand..

Im sorry youre having a rough day sweetie..


Stacey it may just be a piece of paper but its the bond and the commitment and meaning behind that piece of paper that makes it worth more then just a sheet of tired old notebook paper


JMHO

you are unique , kind and sweet.
And finding someone special is very hard. Hang in there Ok?

Of course you are!! We all are. But I'm glad to see you out here.

There are lots of other people here from MI. It's great that you are out here on the main boards. This is a great way to meet people!

Well, after someone is widowed , together with other issues sometimes that makes each case unique.

{{{Dave}}} Do you have friends that you go out and do things with?

Could always be a bit more optimistic about it.

Go find someone! Only you can change that.

marriage,over rated...its just a piece of paper!!

(((((Dave)))
Don,t think about dying ...think about living

I'm sorry....anything we can do?

Hiya Kiteman, what's going on? Bad day? Haven't seen you in the widow thread of late. I have been depressed

most the good people dont live in michigan i have come to realize, sad =(

You are still young and hopefully have many decades of life in front of you. You require a new approach to life and the pursuit of happiness that incorporates confidence and self-esteem. If you cannot pull yourself out of the depressed state you seem to be in then perhaps you need to seek professional help.