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Sat 08/01/09 04:59 PM



A yellow rose is associated with the sun, representing warmth, it is a symbol of friendship.....if she knows here roses she might think you just want to be friends...


I've kissed her so she should know I don't want just a friendship from her. Friendship is a base for a really good relationship I think.


Rock on...here's a flower for you! You deserve one. flowerforyou


Aww thanks and here's one for you flowerforyou
The date is tonight with dinner and movie of our choice, not mine. I got her a little stuffed pig too cause she says she wants a little pet pig forgot what the kind was called.

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Sat 08/01/09 04:55 PM

A yellow rose is associated with the sun, representing warmth, it is a symbol of friendship.....if she knows here roses she might think you just want to be friends...


I've kissed her so she should know I don't want just a friendship from her. Friendship is a base for a really good relationship I think.

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Sat 08/01/09 04:53 PM
I'd go for pink or yellow first after a while def red roses and then her favorite kind of flowers, maybe wild flowers.

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Sat 08/01/09 04:49 PM
Is getting a single yellow stemmed rose for a girl ok on a 2nd date?

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Thu 06/25/09 09:39 AM


Ok so I maybe obsessed with my gf. Would the "pull away" not call her, let her call me thing work if she's gonna be out of the country for some time?


I hope she is not going hiking on the Appalacian Trail or down to Argentina? May need to rethink your plan. drinker


She's going back home in Honduras cause of visa issues, family and other things she has to take care of. I do have her number plus her yahoo/msn screen name... I'm not trying to play games but family adviced me when I told them that it feels like I'm losing her.

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Thu 06/25/09 03:38 AM
Ok so I maybe obsessed with my gf. Would the "pull away" not call her, let her call me thing work if she's gonna be out of the country for some time?

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Wed 06/24/09 11:47 PM

Cutting off the sex thing happens for too many reasons and they lie usually with the Lady. Hate to give advice, certainly no expert on Female thinking, but it seems like there is something going on. Maybe she just like she says, needs time to evaluate is this relationship what she really wants. If that's the case she needs the time she needs, no sense trying to rush. Try not to jump to any conclusions. I have spent many nights worrying what could be it, only to find I was as far off base as Mars and Pluto! Hopefully soon she will confide what is bothering her.


She hasn't told me what I've done wrong, it's the thing thats bugging me the most if I get dumped I'd like a reason at least. She mentioned she doesn't like my ways of thinking I don't think that is enough to end things though...
Plus I told her I was at work one day when I was at a park really (alone) she found out cause I took pics from my phone. A white lie I don't think it's enough to end things is it? Maybe space is what she needs.

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Wed 06/24/09 11:26 PM

Then perhaps she is trying to act tough so her heart does not break so much. Have seen Ladies do this. Maybe she is thinking a LDR would not work. Maybe she is worried you might cheat. Maybe she might cheat. Still say talking to her will be the most beneficial.


We've already tried the LDR and all was fine. We met on Xmas and she left early Jan. She came back in March and now leaving again. I can be true to her, I've tried talking to her, she says she wants to think about if she really does love me. Is cutting off any sexual activity normal for this scenario? it's not that important again, but it wouldn't hurt trying cause idk when I'd see her again.

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Wed 06/24/09 11:17 PM

Does she think youare obsessed with sex with her or does she feel that because you give her no room to be herself that you are obsessed? May need to clarify with her what she means. Remember men and women do not always mean the same thing when they talk.


Sex isn't that important to me. She's going home to be with family and take care of some stuff and I've been showing her how much I love her in as many ways as I can so she knows I'm here for her...
We were really close and would exchange "i love yous" but things kinda changed, she's leaving on Tuesday.

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Wed 06/24/09 11:05 PM
So I just kind of learned that I may be obsessed over a girlfriend I have. I thought that I felt love for her, what is the difference? and how can I turn things around so that she doesn't feel like I'm obsessed with her... she doesn't seem to be in the mood for sex/foreplay is this normal if she feels that Im obsessed over her?

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Fri 12/19/08 10:26 PM
I'm no deadbeat I've had 2 job interviews in the passed 2 weeks... I'm doing my part on finding work manangement likes to take their time on processing

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Fri 12/19/08 10:21 PM
It's cause I don't have a job at the moment, it's not my fault that the economy is all messed up.

I'm not lazy nor I pick eyeballs off of snails. I used to pour salt on them when I was 7 but who didn't?

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Fri 12/19/08 10:10 PM
I'm far from a deadbeat I can take care of myself. With the type of work I do, I expect to be laid off from around Sept to Jan... I've told her I'm getting another job in Jan.

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Fri 12/19/08 10:03 PM
Women ain't nothing but gold diggers huh?

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Fri 12/19/08 09:58 PM
The last girl I dated told me I'm too immature... she's turned off by it. I know I'm not immature so do I keep pursuing her? is there a way for me to prove to her that I'm not immature?

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Fri 12/19/08 09:51 PM
Why do I get that from girls lately? the passed 3 girls I've dated have told me I'm kind of immature and get turned off by it. So I'm unemployed but it's not my fault work got slow so they had to lay me off. I'm 29 living with parents still, is that such a crime?

I don't think I'm immature 1.) I pay my bills, 2.) I'm doing my part to find work 3.) I go to school everyday and do my homework on time... what else do females want from me?

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Tue 12/02/08 11:24 PM

Are you sure she was jealous? She might've just wanted to know if there was competition. :wink:



Competition? maybe I told her me friend was nobody to worry about, that I only have one interest and thats her.

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Tue 12/02/08 11:22 PM



besides, she maybe just likes you


She does like me, she's told me that she does and I like her too. We're supposed to meet this Saturday.


I've been honest and truthful to her from the start, I'm not hiding anything should be a good plus for me from her right?

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Tue 12/02/08 11:11 PM
To show some jealousy?

Today I went to a jacuzzi with a lady friend and saw a movie at her place. A girl I've been texting and trying to meet for about 2 weeks asked me what I was doing so I told her the truth, and she seemed a bit jealous is it good or bad that she's jealous already? me and my friend are just that 'friends'

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Tue 12/02/08 11:11 PM
To show some jealousy?

Today I went to a jacuzzi with a lady friend and saw a movie at her place. A girl I've been texting and trying to meet for about 2 weeks asked me what I was doing so I told her the truth, and she seemed a bit jealous is it good or bad that she's jealous already? me and my friend are just that 'friends'