Hey Ruewen,
If you were looking for attention you got it, I do not believe a word of
the story though most decent looking women get hit on even in church.
Anyway, I already answered in the foregoing and come back to find you
are still milking this. I believe you are just lonely, the prettiest
women are, they intimidate the greater part of the "guy pool." How many
Saturday nights have you spent alone?
Anyway, I just received a professional journal with an article on
harassment in the workplace and a New York City Superior Court Judge
awarded a very lovely lady $million due to repeated harassment by her
employers, the partners in a law firm where she is up for partnership.
She stuck a mini-recorder in her brassiere, voice activated and caught
the offenders who acknowledged their names as she spoke them and then
madee disparaging remarks to her.

I still think this is a figment of your imagination to get the
attention you got and I suppose you have every right to it.
Good Luck, stop by and Just say Hi sometime.

Lets face it. Everyone knows what kind of person they are and we all
choose our lives. Today, gentlemen women can Pay Pal $49.00 and know
EVERYTHING, even the name of your high school sweetheart. They use
public records, if you are married, she will, if you have been to jail
she will know, if you were dishonorably discharged from the service she
will know She will know where you lived, where you have lived and worked
for the last ten years and if you have been to a detox center. She will
know if you are registered to vote, how many times you failed to vote in
the last ten years, she will know your overall grade point average from
High School, any liens or legal suits you have against you or have been
in. Actually, most women do not need this information, they can sum you
up in a heartbeat, but if they like you and want to continue, if she can
afford the $49.00 eventually she will do a background check on you right
on the web. I am not going to name the sites, just do a Google for
people finders if you ever need this kind of information. If you were
born here, it takes an hour or so and if not a little longer. In my
business, my partner pays a private detective and though he can get
non-public information on like what size fruit of the looms you wear, he
still goes directly to a computer and has his connections.
Any man or woman can do a background check and sometimes get some
dramatic results. There are plenty of stories who have been caught
married, wanted for a felony in another state or a polygamist running a
Big Con.
If you have any doubt, protect yourself, not just women either,
unfortunately there are still gold diggers who have priors for
prostitution and soliciting. The net is full of predators, but there
is not a demon behind every bush. (no pun intended

The consensus is and I agree that you need to step up and take the
initiative, your photo would seem to do justice to those compliments you
have received, gotta believe that there is a big heart with lots of love
beating on the inside of you. Go for it, but not too far, look above
what happened to Kay.

to ruewen,
I checked with an attorney who is a partner of mine in a Laundromat. I
am an attorney myself, but my license expired in California a few years
ago.
The way to end it is this. Take it off your hands. Go buy a mini tape
recorder that fits in a breast pocket of a tee shirt. That is the size
you want. You can put it anywhere on your person. Make sure it is the
type that is voice activated, only about $10 more. Keep it on your
person and wait until he advances on you again. You will get the whole
conversation. Tell him everything negative. Try to get him doing it
twice and then go to a camera shop and ask them to make a copy of the
little tiny cassette that you recorded. Keep the copy safe. Make an
appointment with Human Resources management. When you get there, play
the tape for them or who ever is in charge. Ask them politely to please
take care of the problem expeditiously.
Then it becomes their problem and bet they will move swiftly to avoid
your lawsuit because you have cause for action once they are advised.
Case closed. (If they make the mistake of firing you, the suit you can
bring against them for wrongful termination will be so sweet that you
will never need to work again.

But something tells you are just looking for attention of which you have
gotten plenty and no doubt will get a lot more when my answer hit the
presses. Sure it is hard to get people to talk here, but you just did
it, Congratulations.

The mean average for a home just went down to $475.000 and interest
rates are higher. Real estate people here who have been living like
royalty for a couple of years are taking on other things to sell part
time.

I will let you know when it is a buyer's market again

As you know from my profile, I am a Medical Doctor. I have practiced
psychology and psychiatry and written several papers to medical journals
on abnormal psychology, aberrant sexual behavior. Additionally I have
counseled men and women who are a couple whether married or not. I have
also counseled individuals. This came up in group sessions several
times.
I do not pretend to have the answers, the men who answer will tell you
why, but the man is not always in control and if you spend the decade of
your twenties copulating, both the man and the woman will degenerate
after a few years and look for another turn on. Never did it myself,
never had an urge, I was just glad to be able to get off hopefully at
the same time as her.
Now that I am older I have to leave it to the younger men who practice
it, but I do know that healthy young men and women have what others
might think is a gross sexual practice, who is to judge, not me. Why
not leave it in the bedroom unless it makes itself out onto the road,
then we can full examine it. Party on.

yeah Kay, call me and talk dirty or write me.......or.........not

Mean average for a home in San Diego as I write is $487,525, gasoline is
$3.15 a gallon at the least, most $3.50, guess what, Ol' Mr. Goodwrench
won{t do a threemonths service on your car for less $59.00+ tax, a
ticket to Disneyland costs more than $50.00 and it da*mn near as high at
Sea World and Universal City tours. The zoo is almost reasonable and
the Wild Animal Park, a magnificent place, is very high.
I shopped around for a popular automobile not too long ago, I ended up
buying it for $1,500 less at a Roseville, CA dealer over the internet.
Come at your own risk, the country accesssor will welcome you once a
year.

I was a physician for 28 years, mostly in Emergency Medicine and Trauma.
I filled in the Psychiatry dept when they were short handed (lots). I
found over the years that the greter the difference in ages the better
the relationship. I suppose that has to do with one lacking a loving
parent of the same gender as their partner. I saw one guy about 29 sit
ouside 17 hours while his 49 years old wife was in surgery, terrible
auto accident. She went into a coma and this guy would only go home for
a change of clothes and a shower, for a year that she was there. I
understand that she woke 2 years after surgery and was transferred back
to our hospital for physical theraphy and a much less serious
neuro-surgery. This young man was never a bother, always clean and
reading to his wife, that probably saved her life. I understand that
she is in her sixties now and he waits on her hand and foot as she did
suffer brain damage but is well enough to walk and go outside, even
travel, just cannot talk to well. I would like to give the young man a
medal, he taught me something.

San Diego is probably one of the most expensive places to live in the
USA. But I would not give it up. People COME HERE. This is a
distinguished place and we get about 300 days of sunshine every year.
At lot of people have come down from Los Angeles and stayed. I was born
here and I am not leaving except for an exotic Panamanian beauty or a
doll from French Polynesia.
Enjoy yourself. Use this post to talk up the city. I believe the best
and the brighest live her and business does also, we are home to
Qualcomm and Jack in the Box and our sports teams are in the thick of it
every year.
cya at Pacific Beach or La Jolla.