We care for each other, but she is not in love. She is a great person and we are still talking as friends we Ialways respect each other and I think that is why we had a great relationship for 12 years and I know we will be a great friends but if one of us dont feel more than a friendship there is when we have the problem. I havent tell anything to my fam they never accept her or my sexual orientation and I told to one of my sister because she was one that accept a little and treated her with respect. Now Im just trying to deal with the separation :( I know some day Ill be fine is just matter of time but for now it hurts like nothing I was been thru in my life