Thanks so much. not a easy issue to deal with. And he also has early stage4 colon cancer, which makes this situation even more complicated.

Awesome pep talk. thanks it helped so much.. lmao

Right!!!

After 25yrs of marriage, and you find out your husband is bisexual, hitting up guys on sites, more or less begging for it. And gets mad because you found out. says I'm sorry, all the excuses you can think of to cover the fact hes into guys. And repeatedly gets caught, he's never been with another man. But that's all he sneaks around doing, evolving men. The spark is gone had been for awhile. knowing this now, and watching him repeat the same mistake over and over hurting you more each time. how can you get past the feeling it's your fault, you just want him to want you but his minds way off. do you give up after 25yrs when the connection is lost? or keep holding on to the hope he loves you enough to make things right? now all i can think about is, is it really me that he's thinking about during sex. It's different if it was a child, sibling, but your lifelong spouse. how am I supposed to get past that? I'm bisexual to, but I told him in the very beginning, like he should have done. now this 25yrs feels like a lie. I don't want to keep holding on to a memory of what it was. move on? give him one more chance. It's like his 15th chance. any advice?