after reading more and more of the topics in all the forums on this site the more I see this site for what it is.. a total joke. I see people with serious trust issues, others that have no clue what they want or who they are, and a good amount of players and bull shiters on this site. a friend asked me to check it out because I used to own and run a chat server on mirc years ago and have experience with chat and forums.. this site is pathetic like most others. paid for or free...

it seems to me to be not much more then a sounding board.

then your talking to the wrong guys then, I have invited a loit of people to my home for dinner and movies and done nothing but what the invite entailed, a movie and dinner. not all men are gonna have Ulterior Motives.. I have female friends come visit all the time because they want too . I have met woman for the first time at my home because they felt after talking to me for a couple weeks they could trust me and they found there gut to be right. they could trust me. so if your having issues with meeting men and all they are doing is trying to bed you. then look at your self and how your putting your self out to get those men to think your easy..