Dude, don't take it the wrong way...don't ask people to rate you. The only people who will, are the rude and judgmental types who see a target. Insecurity is unattractive. Stop begging for sympathy. It has nothing to do with your appearance; but it sends a bad message to people regarding your self-esteem.

My advice...chill and be yourself. No one can tell you "how to be more interesting." That's up to you to figure out. When you do, then it's real; because it came from within. Not from the suggestions of others. Be who you are, not what other people want you to be.

I'm 58. I just joined too. There will be one out of a million who will see me for who I am and appreciate it. I'm patient enough to wait. Be you. I'm gay, not straight. You're not a bad looking guy. Put on a smile in your pic, and just be real. Nuff said bro.

The same happens to me. I am looking for men only; but the truth is, I don't think there really is a way to filter them all. Probably just a gaff that they really can't control due to the overwhelming volume of people who view your profile. Just ignore those you're not interested in. Just remember. You're looking for a special "someone" and you're playing the odds to begin with.