to find hot asian women, but the forums are a welcome bonus and makes the site a bit more of a community so thats good.

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call me old school but I prefer Yahoo! Messenger...

chances? they are not good if you don't know the way to play it.

in **** areas where they havent joined the 21st Century yet you will have a guaranteed supply of ***** if you learn Chinese well. So if you are on some teaching gig in a place like Shandong, its worth thinking like that.

in the 3 or 4 decent cities that are modern,SH BJ SZ and probably Wuhan, the best thing to do is use Chinalovecupid which is a dating site. you will have easy sucess with women in their 30s on that site however quite a few of the women on this site have been on it a long time but the good thing about this dating site in China is women actually pay to become members meaning you can contact them for free if you are just a cheapskate or a chancer. Worth mentioning that Wuhan has some seriously hot MILFS and GILFs who use that site. I met one myself from there and it was awesome.

other option is to get yourself a wingman and hit the girly bars that exist in the modern cities however the prices for drinks and the eventual take home are probably amongst the highest in all of East Asia.