ok man i can tell you how to catch a woman first try to slim down or at least get your muscle mass up. become active, girls say its not about looks oh yes it is, first start by taking pride in yourself the better you feel about yourself the easier it will be. get over being shy and dont be afraid to be shot down. just keep trying and have confidence. be confident in who you are. alot of times people think they are tens when there 7s ya know and they look for a ten well i mean ? what kind of ladies you are attracted too. Go out and approach women. if your looking to get married churches are good places, looking to jst hook up the bar is a good place. i mean you have to do something you cant sit on a comp and expect a woman to jst jump on you man.