I understand where he's coming from and I get what he means, but I don't agree with it. At least not all of it. Men and women both do it. Most of the time for the wrong reason. Before anyone, (male or female) decide to have sex, think about what you want, if you think you'll have the opportunity to get what you want out of it or not.

I would say not to unless the person adds value to your life, but then you would be dating, and there would be no concern of whether or not they would still be there in 3 weeks.

Being single has it's advantages. But in the end, when you go to sleep at night, that's where it takes it's toll. I've been single over 8 years now. LOTS of lonely nights. But, I guess you could say I'm single by choice. I don't want to be, but I have a rule. I will also tell you all this as advice.

NEVER settle for less than you feel you deserve........

If you are a good person, and you'll always do everything you can to help your significant other and make them happy, and that person is what you consider your reason for living and it shows to them, then you already know you are that person and you can decide to settle for the next person that comes along, or wait for someone closer to what you're looking for.

If you are an ******* then you know you are and you really shouldn't be complaining if someone is willing to be with you. No matter who they are, hopefully they won't figure out to soon who you really are.

I'm single because I know someone is out there that is who/what I'm looking for. I haven't found them yet, but I am looking. In the mean time, I just try to find things to fill my time. Who knows, Tomorrow might be my lucky day.

Every situation is going to be different depending on the personal preferences of the people in the relationship. Personally, I don't expect sex on a first date. For that matter, I'm not expecting it in the first 2 weeks. However, I wouldn't be against it on a first date, but I would rather not for personal reasons.

I prefer to get to know her first. I know I have a problem when it comes to sex. I can get attached to someone very quickly when sex is involved. So I like to take my time and see if she is what I'm looking for before I worry about sex. I will admit, from the first time I lay eyes on "her", I'm thinking about it. That doesn't mean I'm going to do anything about it. I would rather get to know her well enough to decide if her values, personality, morals, upbringing, sense of humor, etc, are what I'm looking for in a significant other. Or if we would be better off looking elsewhere for a relationship.