Of course the weight matters. Are you happy being fat? If you are great. There are men who like their women big or volumptious or whatever the latest buzz word is for being fat. But most guys want a healthy woman. Not crack whore thin but a healthy weight. You know if you're a healthy weight or if you need to start cutting back on the calorie intake and getting off your fat *** more often. But don't kid yourself. Fat is ugly and unhealthy. And most people will have a hard time getting past your looks and will never get to know the person behind the fat.

So assuming you like yourself the way you are, resign yourself to being overweight and find someone who likes you that way. And don't worry about the people who don't find a big woman attractive. Can't blame people for what they find attractive or what they don't.