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Love at first sight.
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I think there is love at first sight. I fell for a man I worked for the moment I saw him. Got well and truly knocked off me feet. Kept my feelings to myself. The more I got to know him, the more I liked him. No romance at the time as it was work but we had a special raport and could spark each other off. The job we did ended and he went back to America and I moved to England. We lost touch. Fast forward 10 years. We got in touch and amazingly he came to the UK often to a city not far from me. We started seeing each other. The feelings were still there. I ended the relationship because I couldn't cope with the LDR when he went back home or elsewhere in the world as he travelled a lot. Eventually I met and married my now late husband but have never forgotten this man - even yet. He will always have a special place in my heart, so yes, there is such a thing as love at first sight but it doesn't always work out for various reasons. And had you NOT liked him after getting to know him more, would you still call it "love at first sight"? That was lust at first sight, a physical attraction. ..you totally altered the scenario. That's your justification for lust at first sight? Please. You alter the situation, of course the result changes. Love didn't falter. Blame the right culprit, not the invisible one. |
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Love at first sight.
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I agree. Love takes time. Lust, Infatuation and anticipation at first sight...sure. I have always believed that love should have the solid foundation of friendship first. ..says the woman who "loved me the minute she met me". HA! Hypocrite. 
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Love at first sight.
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i see women that i know that could love by looks alone, basically the same way you would want a beautiful painting or anything else that attracts you by beauty. but to say love at first sight i think would be wrong. Perfectly said!!!! Oh? I love art, but never found myself wanting that painting for the rest of my life. When you find that someone, and get that "feeling", and this feeling only grows stronger, deeper, and seemingly unbreakable over time.. ..that was "love at first sight". You don't always know it.. Sometimes you "grow" into it.. ..others it grows unto you. So, perfectly said? Doubt it. |
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I just posted a thread bout our astrological compatibility.
:P |
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guys vs girls - part 50
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Simply Cynical
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holy verbiage. less is more, dear. less. is. more. i'm a pessimist/nihilist/misanthropist. i refuse to explain myself because you're not worthy and it doesn't matter. :p ..less isn't always more.. Just for clarification. |
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Simply Cynical
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I don't mean to be cynacle and chit but you remind me of my ex wife...... 
..meaning? |
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"Boy and Girl"
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"Boy and Girl"
I promise To love you naturally Like the bird that spreads his wings and flies To love you in dark times Like the sun that still tries to shine Hidden behind the clouds delivering rain To love you during the best of times Like opening the window to be cooled by the breeze To love you during sickness When you feel the pain of the past You have my love that shall always last To love you during health I plan to love you forever… ..and I don’t want forever to arrive any time soon. I promise To always be the one You want to come home to Waiting impatiently by the door To ambush you with love and affection To sit in an uncomfortable chair for hours While you try on 900 outfits and dresses To do nothing but smile When you get agitated because I love all you choose Because, baby, quite frankly You look beautiful in and out of anything Every time, I look into your eyes All I see is me, as you see within my own All the while, love becomes that mirror A chosen reflection, becomes all we know I promise To never falter, to never stray My body is a temple And you have the only key No one will ever make me feel this way And you did so, simply effortlessly There once was a boy Until he met this girl And everything began to change Love had a meaning One he found only in her Life had a purpose One he discovered because of her He altered his course Because the road less traveled Became the one he would pursue Not because he yearned for the struggle But simply it’s the path you walked down So, this boy will follow the girl Never caring where they travel Just as long as… …this boy finds his girl. |
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Nah, doubtful. You can start earlier then prior. Plus, some enter the field before they actually finish. 28-29, I'd guesstimate the earliest, full fledged doctor. I'd still have an issue with somebody who's barely on their second razor telling me I busted something with a name longer than most third world countries. Agreed. |
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Topic:
guys vs girls - part 50
Edited by
Sin_and_Sorrow
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Fri 03/23/12 11:11 PM
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CDXCV
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Can Someone......
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Hmmm, if a dude attempts to change me then it can only go so far. Guys and gals will sniff out insecurity, but if its meant to be, there shouldn't be a doubt or question about it. I don't believe in soul mates really. All you're going to get is a mate. i know my girl still loves me ive nvr doubt it or question abt it.. he knows it meant to b thts y he nvr stop from pursuing her, he truely believes they r meant to b each other.. In the game of things, you gotta know the rules... "Sniff out insecurity" Topped with: "I don't believe in..." Makes the whole statement null and void. The inability to open yourself to that extreme, is an insecurity. Therefore, it's a bias contradicting opinion. Fire2Burn: Yes, I truly do believe that. I will not cease till she knows it as I do. Mariah: "Game". "Rules". ..and then people sit there and wonder, "Why does love escape me?" Because Life isn't a game Love isn't a game. The "rules": You are born. You then die. Everything in between is up to you and what you make it. Creating rules, is why "true love" is said to be a myth. Seriously. Almost everything else in life, you get hurt, you heal, you try again. ..yet so many give up on life. *shrug* What's truly sadder? |
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guys vs girls - part 50
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Simply Cynical
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Now.
I know why I hesitated to read your response. *sigh* |
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Topic:
guys vs girls - part 50
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Four hundred and ninety-nine.
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guys vs girls - part 50
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Topic:
guys vs girls - part 50
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Five.
Zero. Three. |
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Simply Cynical
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cyn·i·cal/ˈsinikəl/
Adjective: 1. Believing that people are motivated by self-interest; distrustful of human sincerity or integrity. 2. Doubtful as to whether something will happen or is worthwhile. Versus op·ti·mism/ˈäptəˌmizəm/ Noun: 1. Hopefulness and confidence about the future or the successful outcome of something. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We can all be cynical. We can even occasionally (if not always trying to be) optimistic. I've noticed.. Between love, friendships, arguments, debates.. ..it is always far easier to be "cynical" then it is "optimistic". Why...? If someone tells you they love you.. ..instinctively, a wall goes up.. We put our troops on high alert.. Because this stranger in our "heart" is a terrorist. He is to be marked as such, for XXX amount of time. When we do this, we give the appearance that we are merely sitting and waiting for this "perfect stranger" to show an "imperfection" so that we can justify our own cynicism. How is this right? How can someone clearly "accept" and "teach" this frame of thinking and deem such as not only acceptable but a must? Granted, there are tons of b****es and a**holes out there.. ..but a conjoined cynicism causes the situation(s) and interaction(s) to worsen and, in some cases, the sincere patron is the one left destroyed and, in retro, will become a cynical being him/herself. If I tell you I hate you.. "Fine, I don't care." <-- You expected it and as such were barely harmed by it. If I tell you I love you.. "Yeah, bull****." <-- I am showing my vulnerability, my weakness; the walls go up, you prevent love from truly ever entering and then blame love saying, "Love doesn't exist". ..why is it so hard to accept that someone loves you.. ..that someone can care to that depth for you.. That the very minute they slip, which will happen (humans), your word, every action, every strand and fiber of their being that goes into showing and promoting their love for you--Means absolutely nothing anymore.. "Love". The only emotion that is under the constant pressure to always be "perfect". |
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Nah, doubtful.
You can start earlier then prior. Plus, some enter the field before they actually finish. 28-29, I'd guesstimate the earliest, full fledged doctor. |
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When did all doctors start looking like they are in junior high?? Since doogie houser hit the scene lol It's them right? They are getting younger. I am NOT getting older. Just agree please. 
It's a profession that pays to be younger. Not because of looks either.. :) |
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I no longer need anyone else..
I no longer want anyone else.. The void has been filled. Emptiness is but what describes my cup. Not my life. You are everything. I need nor want anything. Except you. Except our future. You. Me. Together. Unstoppable. Memorable. ..one of the greatest love stories.. Never written. I love you more than yesterday. Five times more then a moment ago. And fifty times more.. ..by the time Mingle posts this ..and you read it. |
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