there are some guys out there who are gentleman and know how to treat a lady. I am older than you are you are and i understand your frustration. I have been wanting to fall in love again and have someone to share my life with, someone to hold, someone to share good and bad times with, my best friend. I have a handicap so it makes it even harder for me. My ex wife got me started wearing lingerie and some women's clothing and i never stopped, i don't wear wigs or anything like that i just find women have so many choices in clothing compared to men. So if you think it's hard finding a true love i have some experience in that department.