cheating is certainly fatal to a marriage. so that just leaves the "do us part" part. you deserve better. When you use the word 'fatal' then you've already established a limit on your love. Thinking one has done it first, so that's the end, when the reality is if one didn't the other still might. No one "deserves" to be cheated on unless they caused the other to cheat. So that brings another factor into the equation, what caused one to cheat? It's not always the cheaters fault if the cheaters being cheated by the other (man was that a mouth full). I don't think you can just draw a line and say one kind of mistake in a relationship is going to have this degree of consequence vs. another mistake. Your no longer loving unconditionally. ending a marriage does not necessarily mean you now unlove this person. if a spouse has sex with someone other than their spouse, assuming a non-open marriage, for me, this is major. it signifies that there is something terribly wrong in the relationship. it is no ones fault but the cheaters if they choose to cheat rather than find an alternative way that does not defy the sanctity on the marriage. I can, do, and will draw a line with unfaithfulness. I believe both partners deserve that. |
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Things that turn me on
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When he reaches down, ever so slowly, between my legs, softly brushing my thigh, takes a chip out of the bag, and feeds it to me. yums :) That's just a distraction so I can get those Potato Chips out from between Your legs. You scoundrel you!! :)- |
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cheating is certainly fatal to a marriage. so that just leaves the "do us part" part.
you deserve better. |
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I wish I never....
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Suz, you look petrified and thrilled. Awesome!! :)
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I wish I never....
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I wish I never read that cuz now I want to go skydiving!! Great description,
so glad for you! but other than that, no, I say life is ... No regrets. |
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Better call Saul
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I can't wait to catch up this weekend. I'm typing with my eyes closed
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Things that turn me on
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When he reaches down, ever so slowly, between my legs, softly brushing my thigh, takes a chip out of the bag, and feeds it to me. yums :) yep that one made me laugh I'd laugh with you, but I have a mouthful of chips |
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Where Night Meets The Day
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there is such majesty in your words that tells me it is true,
search on and I hope you always share your treasures. :) |
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Things that turn me on
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When he reaches down, ever so slowly, between my legs,
softly brushing my thigh, takes a chip out of the bag, and feeds it to me. yums :) |
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Well I would like to meet everybody. Put faces to personalities. Feed them all. It's what I do :-) I'd want to come even if there wasn't food. #hootinanny :) |
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Less attractive men
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When wearing Victorias Secret, lingerie - you should be somebody's angel. ...underneath the Christmas tree. Beautifully said there M. :) |
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Charlie Hunnam, the sum of all the parts :)
((2kids, truth is better than fiction. You go girl!)) |
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Totally! But my boss says I still have to come in tomorrow. Bummer. I'm the boss, so I have to say to myself...."so what if you are pretty, get back to work! " |
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Things that turn you off.
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angry or negative people. messes with my mojo terribly.
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Totally! But my boss says I still have to come in tomorrow. Bummer.
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Dates
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I can't say I've had any bad dates, but I was
seeing this guy for a while and one morning I went downstairs and found half the refrigerator contents on the counter. He said they all had passed their expiration dates. It was then that I noticed he had too. lol I do check that kind of stuff more often now though :) |
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Forever In Your Presence
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what a vivid tribute, may she rest in peace.
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ol schoolers
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Uh huh..Nods...I consider it Home Of course it is, what else would the 2 in mingle2, be referencing 2 kidsmom? :) |
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Obsession
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Working in an all female office, I can not agree with the OP.
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Do You Believe In LOVE??
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Of course! I can't imagine going through life without it!
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