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Having to say goodbye
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After my husband died, my main companion has been my cat. Yes, I have human friends, but they aren't there for me 24/7 the way my cat is. She's getting old. I knew the day would come. About 3 months ago she started developing dementia. (Yes, cats can get it.) It is now time. This Thursday I have a home vet visit scheduled. She'll be put down in the comfort of her own home, cuddled on my lap. I've been crying for 2 days. It's so difficult. So painful. Even though I know it's for the best for her, it's not the best for me. I will miss her SO much.
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After I put restrictions on who I wanted to message me, I stopped getting responses. That's okay...I was tired of dealing with really young men who were hundreds of miles away. Most of them, after I pointed out that reading my profile would be a good thing, came up with the age is just a number and as for distance, they're willing to relocate. That's even more annoying.
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Topic:
Meeting Local Ladies
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Hit the wrong button...sorry. Not completely familiar with the format of the forums.
Anyway...people who live in Oregon are familiar with the area around LaPine and not too many want to live there. That could be part of your problem. I see that we share some interests, but I don't want to spend time in that area. I happen to like the Willamette Valley. Not so dry and dusty. |
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Topic:
Meeting Local Ladies
Edited by
Mary
on
Tue 10/01/19 01:46 AM
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Ok people , , ,can u all give me any idea why I,m having so much trouble actually communicating with lady somewhat close to my age , , ,I,m 61 , ,I,m messaging lady's from 49 to 65 , ,been on this site about 3 months or so , ,an I,'ve messaged over 200 different lady's , , most all from OR , , where I,'ll soon be moving to , , , only 1 has actually answered , ,, 2 others messaged me , , an I answered both , , ,but our life styles AR so different , , the one that did message me back , , seem to have promis , we were getting along fine , , ,lol , ,untill I asked how many kids she had , an their flavors ??? She answered back 2 men , ,then she said , , ,flavors ????? I guess Vanilla , ,then she say , ,That's an odd question to ask !!! An before I could message her back to explain , ,all I ment by flavors was , ,are they boys or girls , , ,SHE BLOCKED ME !!! If it wasn't for bad luck , , ,I,m wouldn't be having any luck at all , , ,so , my question to u lady's is , , ,an I,m sure some men will weigh in also , , ,but I,m mainly interested in hearing what the lady's have to say , , ,why are so few lady's responding to my messages , ,an pretty much what I,m saying in my messages is , ,ur pretty , we seem to have so things in common ,I,d like to talk more about it with u , , , , I have put lots of info , in my profile along with quite a few current pics , , ,so , ,what the heck am I doing wronge ?????? People who are in Oregon are very familiar with the area around LaPine and not too many |
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At a town celebration today with a friend, one of her friends came over. Was introduced and said she was happy to meet me.
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Topic:
hello
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Whatever/whoever you're looking for, I hope you find it.
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Topic:
Date friend
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Doesn't look like it.
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In 2011 and again in 2013 my husband and I went on 4000+ road trips on a mc trike throughout the western states, USA. I'd like to go and visit some of the places we visited then. We had planned other trike trips, but they weren't to be. He died in 2016.
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Topic:
Contact me
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Nice to know you don't charge for contacts.
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My apologies. In your country, that bird would be called a buzzard. In most of the world, it would be known as a hawk. Did some online checking.
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SparklingCrystal...that picture is not of a buzzard. It's a hawk.
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Not in LaPine, but I'm in Oregon.
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So sorry for you, Bill. Losing a spouse at any time for any reason is painful.
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Topic:
Sugar Mama wanted
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Totally, and completely, unfair!
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Topic:
Adventures end
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((((((((((((Dino))))))))))))
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Topic:
Gay section
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What a pretty kitty! What's his/her name? I love cats. Have one that lets me live with her. But she lets me pay the bills and other expenses. She's very thoughtful that way.
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Topic:
New here: Story Time
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I've found the site itself can be sort of ehhhh, but the forums can be fun.
Welcome. |
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I thought the sale was on the second Tuesday of the first week of every month.
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Topic:
Sugar mummies
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I'm pretty old, but I'm not a mummy. I eat a lot of sweets so probably full of sugar.
Is that what you're looking for? |
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Happy, happy, happy birthday! Hope you celebrated the heck out of the day.
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