Are you happy with how your life is right this minute? RIGHT NOW? Or do you feel you will never be happy until you meet someone? Do you believe you can choose to be happy or at least content? What if you never meet anyone? Will your life still have meaning if you live it without a mate?

Okay Krupa brought up a good point. We are all part of our failed relationships because we are in them.

Okay, confession time. WHAT did you do wrong to end your significant relationship i.e. marriage or over 5 years in length?

My biggest bad thing I did was I made unilateral decisions ALL THE TIME. A unilateral decision in therapy is a decision that you make by yourself that seriously affects the other person and you really should have sought their consent.

I spent money. I brought home pets. I got rid of things. I moved things. I assumed he would help people with their computers. I assumed he would want to help at my charity job.

Okay, name at least one thing about your ex wife or ex husband or ex of a long period of time (at least 7 years). If you cannot name one thing, that sort of says something about you because you chose to be with that person that long.

Okay so my ex husband is a super awesome computer programmer, awesome at math, awesome at all things to do with swimming pools, first aid, teaching swimming, diving, etc., is a good dog daddy, is good to his family, was good to my family, is reliable.

Good that you are honest. Please rotate your pictures. Good looking guy. I would say 10 (don't rate me I didn't ask). There is no one certain kind of handsome and you definitely have your own version. I see no reason not to give you a 10. You obviously work hard to look like that.

Yep. I probably have one of the longest blocked lists in the history of Mingle.

Write something about yourself. "Tell you later" usually means you are sneaking around or looking for sex or something.

And you are an attractive young girl with a nice picture and some guys can sexualize a tree stump so of course they are turned on by you.

I was on the pill. I fell on my stairwell at my condo and banged my left calf on the stairs and got deep vein thrombosis which broke loose and went to my lungs causing pulmonary embolisms. I read the literature with the pill but had no idea what those words meant and never looked them up. I was on Coumadin too (warafin). I hated the constant bruising and all the blood work. I would nick myself shaving my leg and wipe out an entire bath towel with blood. UGH. I do not think the BC pill is a good choice for anyone.

I dance around the house to Billy Idol. I sing along with Queen. I drink way too much caffeine. I put way too much bubble bath in the tub and soak and make the bubbles into mountains and then blow them down. I write silly poetry. I draw. I color CREATIVELY in coloring books. I read funny books. I chat on my Yahoo groups. I hope Old Hippie will call me and crack me up.

Welcome and good luck.

Smooch!!

the dolphin mayan ruins hysterical flipped over the super moon cat litter telephone.

There somewhere in there is the answer to whatever that question was supposed to be. They are both English.

Maturity is the #1 predictor of how they will treat you. They can be mature at any age. They can be immature at any age.

I look for men who hold to their responsibilities. Who work hard at their job. Who maintain their friendships. Who take care of their kids (if they have them). Who take care of their pets esp. bull dogs. Who take care of their aging parents. Etc. etc.

Yes, true love exists between a guy and his bull dog or a girl and her cats.

Don't you think if I was a scammer, I would have asked you for something???

I had blood clots from the bc pill (estrogen) and have been told mixed things about phytoestrogens so I avoid them. I don't think tofu in something is going to hurt me but I am not going to go out of my way to eat a whole meal of it like I used to.

I got my printer working under Red Hat Linux. HOORAY. So I can print out pictures and things I write and such and put them in a scrapbook. YIPPEE. I feel better since I went to the doctor yesterday and got my breathing treatment. Woo hoo.

LOL. My MOM TRIED. The cut off was December 3rd. I was born December 5th. She got caught. I KNOW why. I was just as big a pain in the azz then as I am now. I was walking at 6 months and talked away before the other kids.

What are your favorite movies to fall asleep to??

Mine are Pauly Shore's Son in Law and Wayne's World (the first not the second)

OKAY ALL THE WOMEN WHO ARE MEMBERS OF THE TERRI FREE THE BOOBIES MOVEMENT TAKE OFF YOUR BRAS IN HONOR OF KRUPA'S BIRTHDAY!!!!!!

Ya well there are tons of them who are full of carp. Many with sob stories that are full of carp. How many guys on here "were ready to leave until I met you"? yadda yadda yadda. Oh please. I have been told that and "if it doesn't work out with you, I am never dating again" I don't know how many times.

Just YOU CONTINUE to tell the truth and your stories won't change. In many of our cases, the truth is stranger than fiction LOL.

Their stories come out eventually. Beware the guy with NO JOB, NO HOME, etc. Those with nothing to lose and everything to gain ARE DANGEROUS.