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is it wrong too.
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that is fun you put it way cause when i ask my best friend what he though he kind of put it that way too. he said that he would make it clear he would hurt anyone who hurts me. lol
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is it wrong too.
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and that is why im here asking ? cause i dont really have to many people to talk to about this right at this moment. so i feel i need to get this out.
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is it wrong too.
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Actually, it's not just your wedding, you might want to ask the groom if it's okay with him first. Odds are, he won't have a problem with it, but don't just think of it as "your day" it should be "our day." Try to remember that. and that is how i have been looking at as. i have ask him and talk about it and he says that as long as it makes me happy he doesnt mind. which im happy he feels that way but still i have to clear my own mind first before coming to a complete decision |
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is it wrong too.
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heres the other thing i wonder if it might to be to much. do you think it wrong of me to have my best friend give me away. when he is an ex lover\ ex boyfriend. do you think it might be to much to ask of my groom to be?
me and my ex broke up and decided to end in friendship and yes my groom to be does know. but is it selfish to ask my groom to be given his bride by her ex lover? i dont know why i just put it that way, but that is one of the many reason i feel i should ask ?s because i still dont know my own feelings, cause as i pointed out it feels like im in a dream.a really great one that i hope i never wake from. |
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Topic:
is it wrong too.
Edited by
JadeDemon
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Fri 04/09/10 07:50 AM
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It's about you, You are taking a vow....hopefully for life,you can choose who ever you want to give you away.... The union of marriage shouln't be based on the old tradition that daddy should give you away... On the flip side...how does your dad feel, if he knows of your questioning???? I never chose my dad.... I had another choose my best friends father... When the time came I felt uncomfortable... So I went in front of the judge... 
It looked like judge and jury....  
but I felt... better.... 
So I feel weigh the importance....to this day...I miss the traditionality of marriage..but I had a good talk with my son who was going to get married by a judge, the day before he was prepareing for deployment....thankfully everyone was on board with me... There was a quick beautiful wedding put together in 3 days..... As a mom....I got that last DANCE with my son... You may want to consider....what ever dad(s) would be best..but if u feel so strongly to have your friend... make sure to explain to your dad..... He will have the best seat in the house...and You have a lot of father daughter dances to think about...  I'm exhausted now...lol
Really good luck....you'll make the right decion. we are ready to be together but we have a bit of a wait before we come out with our intent. so i was just trying to get a feel for what people think. my father really was never there so i might dance one song with him but i might dance with my grandfather and uncle more cause they have more of an impact on my life than my father. also my father really did some thing to hurt my feelings and respect for him a few years back. i kind of brougt it up with my cousin last night and she told me about a friend of hers wedding where she had three men give her away. which im thinking i might like to do and have my grandfather, my uncle and my best friend walk me. |
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i still dont know what to do or feel cause i just all feels like a dream
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is it wrong too.
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well i would like my bi-father to be there but i dont want to be given away by him. i might my grandfather thought
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cause im tight more with my fathers side then my mothers
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is it wrong too.
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see i was close to my step dad but i lost touch. but the reason i was wondering is cause my bilogical will find out and i dont want to cause trouble
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is it wrong too.
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so heres the thing i just found a guy that i really want to settle down with and we are thinking about getting married but we havent set a date or really popped the ? but i was wondering if it is wrong of me to not want to be given away by my biological father or any of my step-fathers but possible by my best friend (which happens to be a guy)? i want to know what people think about it
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Christmas Checklist A-Z
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baby's first christmas
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RAbbit
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Edited by
JadeDemon
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Wed 12/17/08 04:30 AM
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2. The garage is all mine.
4. Chocolate is just another snack. 6. You can wear no shirt to a waterpark.(i could if i want every one staring or if i was out of the usa) 7. Car mechanics tell you the truth. 9 You don't have to stop and think which way to turn a nut on a bolt. 12. The occasional belch is practically expected. 13. One mood all the time. 14. A 5 day vacation requires only one suitcase. 15. Everything on your face stays it's original color. 17. You can do your nails with a pocketknife  
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lets see which ones of these apply to me shall we or should i say which ones my guy would have compete with me over lol.
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ruthless
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kit
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Christmas Checklist A-Z
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two front teeth
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Christmas Checklist A-Z
Edited by
JadeDemon
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Wed 12/17/08 12:22 AM
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sitting on santas lap lol
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Christmas Checklist A-Z
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reliving cristmas past
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Topic:
Christmas Checklist A-Z
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quests for finding the right gifts
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