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Fri 08/23/19 09:26 AM

Kansas, usa, not sure if that's a city or state?

Afternoon dee jay waving



Howdy, Mikey waving

Kansas is both a state and a city (actually 2 cities next to each other, Kansas City, Kansas and Kansas City, Missouri) , so you get full credit.


Lone Pine, CA

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Fri 08/23/19 08:37 AM
Jerome, AZ

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Thu 08/22/19 08:43 PM

Why do ladies don't like to chat first, they prefer men to talk to them first.


When it comes to dating and all that goes along with it, many are still stuck in the past with antiquated notions.
That is, it's the man's job to make the first move, it's the man's job to plan the date, it's the man's job to pay for everything, etc.
I have seen similar discussions numerous times on various online dating site forums.
With the same opinions over and over.

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Thu 08/22/19 08:34 PM
Edited by DeeJay on Thu 08/22/19 08:45 PM
surprised

hi i wasn't asking for rude people to respond


No need to ask, they are more than happy to volunteer.


i didn't realize finding great would be this hard


Sadly, the online dating scene has been going downhill for several years now.
It's just not like it used to be.
Glory days
Yeah they'll pass you by
Glory days
In the wink of a young girl's eye
Glory days

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Thu 08/22/19 07:57 PM

What's normal?


Mediocrity.

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Thu 08/22/19 07:56 PM

Drama, money, help raise and support my kids?


Those are not necessarily limited to younger women.

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Thu 08/22/19 06:24 PM

i don't know why it should be so hard to find a really honest woman on here who wants to meet and see if we have anything in common that could lead to a really great relationship


Because you're dealing with humans.

Most of whom do their level best to make it hard to find a really great relationship.


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Thu 08/22/19 06:18 PM
Edited by DeeJay on Thu 08/22/19 06:36 PM
"They pick the most dangerous enemy they can find, and it's themselves."

-The Twilight Zone
"The Monsters Are Due on Maple Street" episode


One alien spaceman talking to another, referring to humans.

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Thu 08/22/19 01:11 PM
Desert Hot Springs, CA

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Thu 08/22/19 10:58 AM
"there are only two or three human stories, and they go on repeating themselves as fiercely as if they had never happened before; like the larks in this country, that have been singing the same five notes over for thousands of years.”

― Willa Cather, "O Pioneers!" 1913

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Thu 08/22/19 10:21 AM

So,where is the "real" women at?


I heard there was one in Outer Mongolia.

Still awaiting verification.


,i hope this doesn't get taken down


Well, you know, you're not supposed to complain about anything.

You're just supposed to pretend the world is perfect as it is.

Mediocrity rules !

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Wed 08/21/19 01:22 PM
Goodsprings, NV

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Wed 08/21/19 11:57 AM


Could be worse....I've never even managed a date, and to be honest, don't expect to get that far. At least I have plants to talk to....although that makes me sound crazy!). 🤣🤣🤣


🤣only sounds crazy if they answer you


And if one of them is named Audrey. shocked

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Wed 08/21/19 11:22 AM

Another eight month old thread? Is somebody lost in the archives?????


Or are there no original thoughts out there?


"There are only two or three human stories, and they go on repeating themselves as fiercely as if they had never happened before; like the larks in this country, that have been singing the same five notes over for thousands of years."

-From Chapter 4, "O Pioneers", 1913, by Willa Cather

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Wed 08/21/19 11:09 AM
Downey, CA

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Wed 08/21/19 10:41 AM

There is a missing child from my area from about 4 years years. There are no leads, but I'm kind of good at reading people and doing a search. What does everyone think?


Leave a trail of bread crumbs when you do your search.

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Wed 08/21/19 10:31 AM

I cant win.. You lovely ladies are a strange lot


People are strange....when you're a stranger.

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Tue 08/20/19 04:13 PM

Does anyone here ever get an Amber alert?


I get Amber alerts on my phone here in Southern CA

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Tue 08/20/19 03:55 PM


Are all the women on this site too scared - even to have a chat.


No.
Only the real ones.
The scammers and spammers will chat.
Just have your credit card handy.

Maybe they AREN'T here to better or enrich their lives......


Well, the scammers and spammers are here to better and enrich THEIR lives.
With your money.


or share in the joys of companionship.


No, they would much rather complain there are no good guys (at least on other sites certainly) than actually meet one.

I thought that WAS the purpose of being on here !!


A reasonable enough assumption.
And it used to work out that way on most online dating sites years ago, much more so than nowadays.
However, as with most human endeavors, there is the original intended purpose, the logical purpose, and the eventual operational purpose, and usually, all 3 do not match.
Humans tend to have a natural knack for messing things up.

AMAZING


And amusing.

In a sad and pathetic sort of way.

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Tue 08/20/19 02:35 PM
Urbana, Illinois