As you should so we can say 'ahhhhhh'

I don't know about years but I do know that it's false to rush to thing such as love. I'm the most spontaneous person I know but when it comes to love, I take it suuuuper sloow. I agree lust is always mistaken for love but is there really a way to tell if its just lust? I'm thinking time is the only answer. Teeshina, as stated so many times before on your thread, you deserve better and as for your estranged match, learn to turn your feelings off as quickly as you can turn them on. That maybe the best way I know how to keep you safe from heartache, sunshine! And.. Heighten your standards. Good luck!