Most girls, me included, are not looking for the buttheads of the male race. I am looking for someone who will give me a good hug on a bad day, who will take the time to listen to what I have to say instead of shrugging it off and going oh well, can we make love now? Looking for someone who will still open the door for me even though I am perfectly able to do it myself. Looking for someone who can show me, in little ways, what I mean to them & vissa versa. It'a holding hands taking a stroll or sitting and watching the stars and not saying anything. It's about arguing and not going to bed angry. It'a about respecting & listening to what the other has to say and not trying to change who you are but compromising to make the relationship stronger and lasting

regarding when to give the person your number, i say to play it safe and go thru the email first & get to know them aliitle b4 entrusting them with your number. I think that if they are asking for the number the first time, they only want one thing & their profile sd that they were nice, they were gentleman and then to learn that they want a wham bam thank you mam and not interested in getting to know your likes or dislikes, they just want one thing most likely...