I do everything for my gf's......I'm every type of boyfriend you could want, I'm the strong guy, I'm the sensitive guy.....I'm the guy that will stay awake all night just to hold you and watch you sleep and make sure youre safe, I'm a good kisser and good in the sack.....I love spending a lot of time together as a couple and alone time....but I've been heart broken four times now......what is it ladies? too clingy? what?

i got the same story..... and i don't think the ladies are going to admit it but yea, i think it's the clingy thing... see what girls SAY they want they often times DON'T want, what most girls really want is an asshole who will abuse them mentally and emotionally, if not even phyiscally.... that's what all my girls cheated on me with... *scratches head* makes no sence to me either. *shrug*

lol

Wow. That is so not true. In fact you could not be further from the truth generalizing like that and saying "most women".

Oops. I misquoted. "most girls"

You just must have had some really psycho girlfriends.

hey i said that was in my experience....

You've simply picked the wrong girls. In the relationships I've had, it was never 50/50. More like 90/10. Me doing the 90. I'm done with that.

I have had enough cr*p too.

I have had enough cr*p too.

i think if its too easy they get bored

Oops. That wasn't supposed to come up twice.

Contrary to what some men might think on here, I would never want an abusive man, and why they even think women do want them is beyond any reasoning that I can figure out. A good man to me would be compassionate, outgoing, very sensitive and not arrogant.

i know all about 90/10.... and yes, i put in the effort, one time i didn't want to put in the effort on a relationship... cause it ws going nowhere, know what i did? i told the girl "hey i'm sorry, but this relationship is going nowhere" and i cut it off....

i'm not going to pretend to be happy w/ something i'm not either.

Not me. I want to be treated really well. Still waiting for that. But...I want to be treated really well by a man I am attracted to. I have had men write to me who say they are caring, loving and all of that, but I wasn't into them.

i'm stateing a tendency that i've noticed... i NEVER claimed to understand it.

...maybe rayden's right...

same thing I always say, you just gotta create challenges for each other, not challenges that make her want to leave you and pull her hair out but challenges that challenge her wits, your wits, and challenge the both of you to become better in your relationship.

I agree with rose and holdem. In my experience, for ten or so years when I was a bitter divorcee and was an absolute butt hole to ladies, I had more of them chasing me than I could figure out ways to get rid of...lol. Then, when I decided that I did not like that type of lifestyls, and became a lot more laid back and courteous and all that stuff, actually tried to turn into a nice guy...lol...I found that there were very few who were even a little bit interested in me. As a byline, I also got rid of my 'vettes and lifted pickups. Go figure

yo man I dont think its a problem hookin up with the chicks but keepin them.

Most girls, me included, are not looking for the buttheads of the male race. I am looking for someone who will give me a good hug on a bad day, who will take the time to listen to what I have to say instead of shrugging it off and going oh well, can we make love now? Looking for someone who will still open the door for me even though I am perfectly able to do it myself. Looking for someone who can show me, in little ways, what I mean to them & vissa versa. It'a holding hands taking a stroll or sitting and watching the stars and not saying anything. It's about arguing and not going to bed angry. It'a about respecting & listening to what the other has to say and not trying to change who you are but compromising to make the relationship stronger and lasting