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Fri 12/02/11 09:44 AM

Hang in there. It is tough but you will feel like Rocky in a few weeks when you look back and see you survived it.

Planning some fun things in the offing doesn't hurt. A spring break to look forward to.

Have a pot luck "Bah Humbug Party" at a local hotel and invite every single person you know and a few you don't. If it is girls only that is ok but you probably got some guys you know that are going to be doing the holiday solo too so why not tell them to come by also.

Remember Christmas is a season and pace yourself so you are not exhausted to get through the last couple of emotional landmine days.

It is alright to have a few boohoos about it just set your timer and when enough is enough knock it off,
put your grown up pants on and realize not evey Christmas is going to be the greatest.

hang in there you never know what the future will bring.

Hug all your Mingle pals and get in on the Christmas card exchange. It can be a God send of great new friends.
tnx dearie.great ideas!

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Fri 12/02/11 07:33 AM
I'm beginning to understand what the expression 'BLUE CHRISTMAS' truly means.This will be my first Xmas without that special someone to share with.I have my siblings and friends to hang out with but at the end of the day,I go home alone to an apartment devoid of another human being. I woke up this morning already feeling the blues. How do I cope through this period?

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Fri 12/02/11 07:16 AM

I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown
we seem to be in the same boat. I sure need whatever advice u r getting here.flowerforyou

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Mon 11/28/11 04:57 AM
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Mon 11/28/11 04:55 AM
flowerforyou

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Thu 11/24/11 05:08 AM
"If Tomorrow Never Comes" -Ronan Keating

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Wed 11/23/11 10:44 AM

i believe thats why the called it mingle that we might mingle and find someone am all in on both may we all find True Love Joy and companionship. Im in for both GD3
AMEN TO THAT GD3!

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Mon 11/21/11 04:19 AM
u can only help someone with insecurity issues only if d person admits to it.What if d insecure person instead goes ballistic and abusive?i loved him(and guess i still do) but I just wouldn't let myself be a victim of his paranoia.

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Sun 11/20/11 11:52 PM
u r lucky.am still looking and searching for mine.i opted to search on cyberspace bcos av not bn dat lucky in love with d men av met d old fashioned way(even my ex-spouse).i just get emotionally sapped.I just felt a new experience would be better till I met my 52year old child-man.Am not giving up though bcos I believe there's still a love out there for me. Am no angel but I do appreciate love and respect when given and reciprocate too

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Sun 11/20/11 11:31 PM
am in!

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Sun 11/20/11 10:09 AM
I certainly do expect some appreciable measure of emotional maturity from a 50+ man.It should come with d territory.It sure was an interesting experience,I must say.

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Sun 11/20/11 02:31 AM
Does age truly determine maturity?Does d maxim go "grey with wisdom" actually applicable to all persons? I ask these questions bcos I was in a relationship with a 52year old man who behaved like a teenager. He just couldn't handle a grown woman,he acted out at every and any given opportunity even throwing tantrums. I cant remember d last time I was in such a situation...So,I ask again, What has maturity got to do with age?

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Sat 11/19/11 04:57 PM
thanks u all.i was in such a situation.i met a man here and throughout d relationship i had to spend time and energy just trying to dispel his distrust.it sapped me emotionally. i am one who loves life and live it happily.though i would love to have that special person to live d sweet life with,i'd rather be alone than be with an emotionally insecure man.

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Mon 11/07/11 01:31 AM
can't there be trust in a distant relationship?i believe it's the person that matters,not the proximity. Lovers/couples can live under the same roof for years and still cheat on each other while some far apart r very faithful.So why the notion that distant lovers cheat. It drives me crazy when people take this perspective.

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