welcome hello56 , I have only been here for a week or so , and so far it seems like a cool site.

Sorry to hear that Moonage, Here is my input on that subject.
If he did'nt want,could afford, or have time for a child he should have never done the you knnow the rest of the story....
Do some soul searching and do what your heart tells you to do , however if he so wishes to have no part of the child , get an attorney,and let the court decide what he has time and money for. I am sure your a great mom and can do it yourself, I too have done that job, but being a great mom does'nt mean that they get to walk away with out being accountable for theyr'e actions. Good luck to you